men think about sex all day long. everyday all day. if its not sex its sports. now i know womans minds are complicated and they have alot going on up there. but really woman, how often do you think about sex. do you crave sex just as much as men? i know its different for all situations such as ages and if your in a relationshp, but im interested in knowing wheather your single or married young or old. i want to get into your minds when it comes to sex.
2007-03-09 03:41:18 · 31 answers · asked by courisousgeorge 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Married, 28 year old female with two kids.
I think about sex several times each day in passing (usually in relation to either my husband flirting with me or something I read/see), but never crave it.
2007-03-09 03:44:39 · answer #1 · answered by Raising6Ducklings! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL get into our minds huh? LOL I say both men and women are complicated. I'm a single young female not too young that i'm in high school or college and not too old that its time for me to retire. When I was younger and in college I craved sex more than the men I knew because as a teenage my mom always told me if you have sex then the devil will get you so I didn't have sex until my college days. LoL Anyway now that I am older (not 2 old) and wiser it doesn't bother me that I don't have sex. I don't think about it everyday or every week maybe once a month at the most and thats the honest to God truth. Sex is overrated and over done. Most females that I know don't want relationships they just want sex sex sex but I don't want that I just enjoy my relationship with my husband to be who understands that sex isn't worth having until marriage too. I can't speak for anyone else but myself when I say I am really looking forward to being married because then sex won't be a sin and it will be something that I can share with my husband all the time. ; )
2007-03-09 11:50:42 · answer #2 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't speak for all women, but I will tell you that in general, sex is more emotional for women, whereas it is mostly just physical for men... depending on age and marital status, of course. By that I mean most women will have sex with someone they have feelings for rather than just a warm body. In my opinion if there aren't any emotions attached, why give away your most prized possession. Being happily married, I don't have the need to crave or think about sex all day, it's available whenever I want it from my husband. Also, we have so much more going on in our relationship. We are buddies, we both have great senses of humor, we like the same things, we can sit and talk to each other for hours. For us, sex is a wonderful added bonus... something else we can do together.
2007-03-09 11:55:03 · answer #3 · answered by Bluebellringy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't think this will solve your question at all. Everyone woman is different. I'm one of the women that absolutely loves sex. And make sure to have it as often as possible. Not with complete strangers though, lol. Usually has to be with someone that I know well or is a FB(I'm sure you can figure out what that stands for). And when I have a boyfriend, I try to have sex at least once a day if possible. I know it may seem like too much info, but just wanted to help you out lol. Oh and I'm single, I'm 20 years old.
2007-03-09 11:52:50 · answer #4 · answered by Trish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the begining of a relationship,when we really fancy somone,we think about it all the time just like you men.after a year or two it depends on factors such as,if we have kids,demanding jobs,or just generally being too tired to care to think about it,or even ?s to ourselves,like where is he tonight(cause hes out with the lads),and we know you think about sex all the time,especially when surrounded with other women.so that doesnt always help you to get your nooky when you get home.Even worse next day if you didnt try the night before,and/or you got home late.Sex is more mental for us,but more physical for men.The first part of great foreplay for a woman is the wonderful ways you make her feel,by doing the little things that men dont seem to think matter that much.Eg.Flowers when not expected,when you sweep her off her feet by saying something really beautiful to her,running her a bath whilst you open a bottle of wine so she can relax with 1 while you cook.Even something like taking the kids out for an hour ,so that she can spend time pampering herself,and then when kids are in bed,shell be feeling relaxed and beautiful.guess who gets the rewards of that then.So once it gets past the first flush of the romance its how she s treated by you that more like determines weather she wants to think about sex or not.Just imagine that ah,you could actually controle when you get yours.JUst have to know how to do it right.cause for a woman theirs no quicki fix like for you men.GIVE AND TAKE REMEMBER.you hear it often enough from us,but its up to you to take it in or not.Or you could just ignore us ,or tell us to stop nagging.(did you think you would get the same results from doing that?).HOPE IV HEPED>I MEAN HOPE YOUVE LISTENED.Be happy.
2007-03-09 12:44:15 · answer #5 · answered by patsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women don't think of sex quite as much as men, we also think of it in a different context then men as well. Men mostly think about how, when and the number of times they might be getting it. Women mostly think of the pleasure in sex, which helps them get into the mood plus it adds anticipation if they are wanting it later on. Women can go days with out really harbouring on it if things are stressful. Stress really clouds over those thoughts.
2007-03-09 12:03:14 · answer #6 · answered by Brandi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I have a fiance...been together for almost 2 years....I think about sex all day long, the most is when I get home and later towards the day. I have other stuff on my mind always, but I think because I have a good and happy relationship, I'm constantly thinking about him especially to take a break away from reality!
2007-03-09 11:45:08 · answer #7 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think about and crave sex as much as the average man, or at least as much as people suggest the average man thinks about it. while i'm awake, usually i think about sex at least once an hour, not like really getting horny or anything, just thinking about it lol. and i definatly crave it like at least once a day. im sure man and women are practically the same on this issue, its just that men talk about it, and its more socially acceptable for men to be all horny than women lol
2007-03-09 11:47:06 · answer #8 · answered by bojanglestothemax 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really can't speak for all women when I say that..
I think of sex almost as much as a man would, I crave it just the same, but I just don't let these sort of things be known :O) I usually keep it to myself and just wait for the right moment to unleash myself.. and when I do, it's the greatest feeling ever. Don't let women fool you, we think of sex as much as you men do :O) *rawr*
2007-03-09 11:45:39 · answer #9 · answered by ☆Karma☆ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since I rarely get it, I think about it and crave it all the time! Probably as much as a guy.
I am in a relationship and have been for over a year. My boyfriend takes medicine that takes all the drive out of him. =(
2007-03-09 11:44:24 · answer #10 · answered by notsoswan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋