Well we are both 20. He initiated it but we were making out and I didnt feel uncomfortable so I didnt stop him. I am a virgin and staying so until i find the right guy. But did I go far for a first date?
2007-03-09 03:44:48 · 20 answers · asked by katie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have know him longer and hes a gentleman and he does want a relationship.
2007-03-09 03:49:49 · update #1
If this was your very 1st date...yes, you did go too far. this guy is going to think he's going to go further on the next date. the whole purpose in dating is to find a mate and not just to make out with people...you can't get to know someone if that's all you're thinkin about...he needs to know that he's not going to be gettin any sex from you anytime soon...you can't say it's too early in the relationship to talk about this with him because you guys have already made out...in the future, know that you're too good to be letting anybody taste you until you know for sure that he's the one!!! You don't know where his mouth has been...ewwww!
2007-03-09 04:02:43 · answer #1 · answered by Cutie Patootie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you will know the answer to that question on your next date as he will try to see if he can go further. Have you told this guy your intent to remain a virgin until marriage? I am proud of you for doing this, by the way.
If he likes you for you, he will not push you for sex. If he stops seeing you because you said no, well, he wasn't interested in a committed relationship, anyway, just sex.
Stay firm with your plans!
2007-03-09 03:55:12 · answer #2 · answered by Stefka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU DIDN'T FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE IT'S EITHER CUZ HE MAKES YOU FEEL SAFE AND COMFORTABLE, OR YOU WERE JUST SO PHYSICALLY AROUSED AND/OR CURIOUS, YOU JUST WENT WITH IT. YOU CAN NEVER GET YOUR VIRGINITY BACK AFTER IT'S GONE BUT LET'S SAY YOU SLEEP WITH SOMEONE AND REGRET IT LATER...YOU CAN ALWAYS RETURN TO AN ABSTINENT LIFESTYLE, YOU CAN ALWAYS MAKE THE CHOICE TO STOP HAVING SEX AGAIN UNTIL YOU FEEL YOU ARE READY TO. IS HE "THE RIGHT GUY"? MY CURRENT BF AND I ARE HAVING PROBLEMS CUZ I DIDN'T TAKE ENOUGH TIME TO FIGURE OUT IF HE WAS A PERSON OF GOOD CHARACTER. I RUSHED INTO IT AND GOT EMOTIONALLY ENTANGLED WITH SOMEONE WHO ISN'T THE KINDEST OF MEN. DO YOU FEEL YOU WENT TOO FAR? IF YOU FEEL REGRET ABOUT THE MAKING OUT, MAYBE THAT'S A SIGN YOU'RE NOT READY TO GO ALL THE WAY.
2007-03-09 03:54:01 · answer #3 · answered by SUGAR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should always tell him stop wait... i feeling uncomfortable right now... You know when I met my wife that time and we make out and she stopped me and told me to take ez now.. and what did I do .. I respect that... If a guy don't respect when you said stop and or no... mean men should stop.... IF you found a guy that stop and listen and respect you... you have found a guy truly respect you no matter what and even if he already had sex before and you are virgin... then it going to be tough...
The whole point here you shouldn't feel that you couldn't tell him stop... smiling I know that if my son and my daughter right now is 3 and 2 and if they don't feel confortable I make sure they tell them stright.
I do hope next time tell them smiling.
2007-03-09 03:51:15 · answer #4 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are an adult, if you weren't feeling uncomfortable then I guess it is okay. If you want a relationship from this guy, I would slow things down and get to know each other before taking it to to that level again.
2007-03-09 03:48:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am 19, and a virgin who is also waiting for the "right guy", but I have a seceret... I love making out...however I try not to on the 1st date.
2007-03-09 03:51:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No making out is not too far to go on a first date as long as you are comfortable around him. I believe that going all the way is WAY too far to go on a first date but making out itsn't. After all its basically a series of kisses and kissing isn't too far to go.
2007-03-09 03:56:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not really, you went as far as you were comfortable going. Going too far on a first date would be when you feel as if you were pushed or forced into doing something you weren't comfortable doing. So good job to you :O)
2007-03-09 03:49:03 · answer #8 · answered by ☆Karma☆ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go at a pace that feels comfortable to you. Hold out until you are comfortable. I made a mistake and it was completely meaningless for me the first time. If he's a decent guy, he'll wait
2007-03-09 03:50:30 · answer #9 · answered by Nick C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i does not date every physique the place I had to take the parkway to get to them. of path, residing in l. a. potential it could take over an hour topersistent 15 miles... so i might say interior a 20-30 mile radius. not greater.
2016-10-17 23:11:47 · answer #10 · answered by dusik 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋