Is this cheating? I glanced at a guy the other day...just out of the corner of my eye...and I feel soooo guilty. Keeping this from my new husband has been a nightmare. Should I just come clean about this? Do you think he will leave me?
2007-03-09 03:41:09 · 20 answers · asked by DoubleD 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh my goodness, people. It's a friggin' joke. And I refuse to grow up...whoever said that. You can't make me. Na na na na na na.
2007-03-09 03:46:27 · update #1
Hahaha.....
How could you? OMG....next you'll get pregnant by brushing up against him. How could you DD??
Waaaaahhhh!!!! Oh, the humanity!!!
2007-03-09 03:53:18 · answer #1 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. You didn't give any information regarding where and who this guy is but all I can say is don't feel guilty! It's so very natural to find guys attractive even when you are in a relationship or married. What matters is whether you are faithful really. It's almost inevitable that you get attracted to someone else! You can come clean about it, but I don't know how your husband will take it!
2007-03-09 03:46:39 · answer #2 · answered by | e v e | 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the law on marriage is you can look just don't touch or have an affair. But what you did is natural because 99% of all women who are married or have bf's always look at other guys. Just looking and not touching isn't cheating. If you when over and ahve him paw you then go to the car and had sex well that's cheating. So don't worry it's natural and you don't have to tell and if you do he will just get mad and that's all.
2007-03-09 03:49:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u have that feeling after looking at a guy, my guess is u shouldnt have gotten married in teh first place. If there is emotion attached, i would think thats cheating. also, imagine ur husband doing this. If you dont feel like he is cheating on u, then its not cheating.
2007-03-09 03:44:13 · answer #4 · answered by luv_hun_nay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm, you and new hubby should been used by now to communcate each other to talk about everything with out being mad or upset or anything....
You know my wife knows and I see woman wow and I told my wife damn look at this... but being with this woman I know I won't be happy.. I am happy what I have now.. We communcate each other alot and we both have nothing to hide... and I alwasy honest with my wife who I go to the movies or dinner or something I always let her know first before someone told her... She trust me and She know that she didn't want to leave me becasue she said that she found a perfect husband...
So, I am glad. but really you should always talk to your hubby about any thing without being upset or mad or something... communcate most key in this marriage. smiling.
2007-03-09 03:46:33 · answer #5 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl! NO. dont let guilt take its place on you. It may get too comfortable and stay. DONT SAY A THING TO YOUR MAN, and dont let it bother you. There was NO physical contact.. So there for it WAS NOT cheating, WHAT SO EVER.
i hope you are okayy!
let me know if you have any questions. =]
2007-03-09 03:45:17 · answer #6 · answered by ♥DANyELLE. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! It is not cheating. It doesn't matter if you looked at him. You just maybe thinks he is cute. My mom does that all the time. It is okay. And he won't leave you. I promise.
2007-03-09 03:45:42 · answer #7 · answered by eVeRyBoDy SiNg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don know
when u go to a museum it's ok to admire the beautiful sculptures n paintings, but u can't touch em or take em home, right
it's the same thing here.
u found it, learn it, live it.
2007-03-09 03:47:22 · answer #8 · answered by willow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever you do don't tell him about us. Are we still on for next weekend. I'll bring the treats oh wait you are the treat.
2007-03-09 04:55:04 · answer #9 · answered by Quix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he rele does love you then he wouldnt cuz im in a relationship and i always think other guys are cute and stuff like that and i told him but he loved me so much he didnt care!!.....trust me
2007-03-09 03:44:52 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Jayde♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋