me and an ex broke up about 4 years ago... we dated for 3.5 years... it ended ok i guess both really sad... anyways we both graduated from college now and live in the same city. i haven't spoke to her for about two years and she was trying to get back together. i was in another relationship at the time so i cut off contact. i am now single and really do miss her. my friend ran into this past summer and she talked to him telling him she really missed me. we really were a perfect couple just dated too young. i love her family, and she is a really good, smart girl, but she broke my heart. should i contact her and if so how?
2007-03-09 03:49:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just did the same thing myself! Time changes alot of things and you 2 both obviously still have feelings for each other. I say contact her and ask her to dinner or something. Start slow and leave the past behind you. Whatever you broke up for is in the past. I wouldn't even bring it up. Start off fresh learning from your past experiences. Me and my ex have been back together now for about 6 months and although we love each other very much, we are still not rushing into anything permanent but we are committed and exclusive to each other. Take it slow and see where it goes. Good Luck!!
2007-03-09 03:59:32 · answer #1 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say if you're single & she's single then I don't see anything wrong with the two of you dating, but make sure you're on the same page so you don't get your heart broke again. I have an ex-boyfriend or two that I miss sometimes but that doesn't mean I want to get back together with them.
2007-03-09 11:53:52 · answer #2 · answered by geminig 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what she did to you, and the way you broke. I would probably give it a chance, maybe she is more mature now. Just be careful.
You can start like just friends, just to make sure.
Personally, I don't believe in Part II relationships, but you will know better, listen to your heart, and you HEAD (the upper one).
2007-03-09 11:56:38 · answer #3 · answered by PRLadyDama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea u should. Just go over her house and see if she will talk 2 u and she might feel the same way about and has never had the gusts 2 talk 2 u
2007-03-09 11:54:42 · answer #4 · answered by Keisha T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes contact her, if u liv in the same city try lookin her # up just be careful cause if she broke ur heart when u had a great relationship, then she could do it again
2007-03-09 11:56:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the similar situation
i say contact her on a friendly basis
feel her out
and see how things go
my x and i havent spoken in two years until she decided to email me in jan
we started to chat then i went to visit her and those old feelings came back
so now we re working on something
2007-03-09 12:00:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR!! CALL HER!!! If you were both happy but the timing wasn't right then give it another shot now. You obviously both care for each other. Don't waste another minute. Call her!! You will always regret it if you don't. Do it! Now!!
2007-03-09 11:59:01 · answer #7 · answered by Pierre Patelin Longshanks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋