Family & Relationships - 9 March 2007

my bf left me a week ago. and i still love him very much and i have the feeling he still loves me. cause that not something that just go's away. but how do i tell him i want to work things out and i still love him and want to be back with him.

now he left me cause of me nothing he did i was the one who screwed it up by lying to him... what do i do?

2007-03-09 03:15:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 03:15:20 · 10 answers · asked by latoyasteven123 1 in Singles & Dating

I cant tell if it is love but I hate it when she ignores me.

2007-03-09 03:15:17 · 9 answers · asked by menchelo 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so for language arts, my group is doing a magazine. i m the advice giver of the whole shananigan but i need an actual story to give advice to .... so if u have a story that u need advice for, you can put it here or email me if you dont want to share it! the story can also be made up! if u dotn want my advice, i would appreciate it if you would leave your story with me anyway! thanks everybody!

2007-03-09 03:15:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My friends Rachel and Amanda are both in ROTC class with me in high school. (its a militray class for those who don't know). Well Rachel commented on the German posters around school. She said that they were mean and called people stupid if they didn't take German. Me and Amanda said it was just a joke. She said it was mean and she didn't like it. Then I said stuff about a paper she brought into school. It was basically dissin on civilian kids and sayin that military kids are better. One of the things was that When the Anthem comes on, Military kids stand with pride and honour, while civilian kids run around and be loud. Not true! cause im a civilian kid! She said it wasn't the same. Finally we put it behind us, but then she started talking about a kid in the next class, who was annoying. We were trying to make her feel better, but she started bein a bit-ch. Just out of nowhere. She used to do that a lot last year, but I thought she matured a little. What should I do about her?

2007-03-09 03:15:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I used to go out with this guy in school. He dumped me for his EX-gf. She was smart, pretty and popular. I'm not a merd but I ain't no beauty queen. Now 4 years later, he has moved into my colony and we bump into each other often. I can't put aside my early feelings for him and he seems to be sincerely sorry. But when I think about how he dumped me (which wasn't pretty-he did it in front of 400 kids and HER) I don't want anything to do with him. I sounds cliched like a movie but please help.

2007-03-09 03:14:37 · 9 answers · asked by moviebuff_1990 3 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married soon to a wonderful man. We are interacial couple. My mother said that I am not suppose to see my groom on the wedding day before the wedding. And she said I am not suppose to go to church with him in the same car. But I am taking with the wedding party at church before the ceromoney. In my culture it's bad luck for the groom to see the bride in her wedding dress before the ceromoney. I think that's just superstition. I am a christian and I don't believe in superstitions. But my mom says I am stubbern and I don't want to listen. She said even American culture follows that. She said infact all cultures follow that. What's the meaning behind it? The point I was trying to make to my mom was if my culture believes that something bad might happen to the groom or bride if they see each other before the wedding then it's silly and superstitious. I wasn't hell bent on getting in my fiance's car and going to church with him. Does everyone follow this tradition?

2007-03-09 03:13:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-03-09 03:13:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I live away from him, haven't lived with him since I was 18. I don't owe him anything, and he doesn't help me out. So don't understand why he still wants to control everything I do.
If I don't agree with him, he raises his voice and threating to hit me. I am still very afraid of my fathers temper. I love my father, I don't want to cut him out of my life. But this is getting ridiculous, I am 25, and I have my own life. I tried to mention anger management classes. He yells that there is nothing wrong with him. Please! advice please...

2007-03-09 03:12:57 · 33 answers · asked by joans 2 in Family

2007-03-09 03:12:00 · 27 answers · asked by 6 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend are still in high school, and we don't really have much fun. I like being around him, but we do the same stuff over and over again. We go to each other's house and sit around and eat and watch tv. Theres not much to do where we live other than the movies and bowling. What activities can we do that are fun and can involve having fun and bonding?

2007-03-09 03:11:55 · 9 answers · asked by four_eyed_bandgeek 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 03:11:03 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Why do people have to always keep things within themselves without expressing it especially when it comes to friendship, love and other relationships where expression and understanding is so important...???

2007-03-09 03:11:02 · 13 answers · asked by venkii (eco_frend) 2 in Friends

My wife was feeling down so I brought home some ice cream for her. When I came in she was on the phone telling her friend her what was troubling her. She made a point of telling her friend what I got her. This surprised me since if it was me I wouldn't have. Do women like to brag about attention show to them by their spouse?

2007-03-09 03:10:47 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been in love with my best friend since I met her five years ago. She has always been upfront that she hasn't felt the same way. Well we moved in together 2 years ago and she had been single for most of that time until recently. During that time it felt like we were a couple to me; we were affectionate, had sex regularly and would go out and do things together. Now she has a boyfriend and all of those things have stopped. It hurts me a lot to see her with some one else (especially living together) and have the kind of relationship we had before just disappear. I'm not sure how to deal with this but I also feel terrible because she has always been upfront about how she feels. I would always say that I understood and that it wouldn't affect my head. She knows now how I feel and feels bad but doesn't know what to do. I'm just heart-broken perhaps you folks can give me some insight.

2007-03-09 03:09:04 · 15 answers · asked by ParadiseLost 2 in Friends

My wife recentley got a new job and now she would rather go out after work with her new friends than come home and spend time with me. We get very little time to spend together due to our conflicting work schedules. Should I be worried or am i just being selfish? Please Help.

2007-03-09 03:08:53 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I got 8 answers before - 6 F and 2 M. I'd like to be able to get around 20 of each.

When giving frequency please avoid ambiguous answers like "all the time". I'd prefer something like "3x a month".

1. M/F?
2. Does your husband/wife give oral to you?
3. How often on average?
4. Are you happy with how often you get it?
5. Do you give oral to your husband/wife?
6 . How often on average?
7. Why do you do it? Or, why DON'T you do it?
8. Is your partner happy with how often they get it from you?
9. What could they do that would make you want to do it more for them?

PLEASE be honest.

By the way, when I ask about oral, I don't mean 1-2 min of horsing around, I mean all the way.

I'll ask again later and tabulate all.....thanks

2007-03-09 03:08:15 · 7 answers · asked by fucose_man 5 in Marriage & Divorce

..when you refer to your parents' sister.

2007-03-09 03:08:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am a jerk. I have increased my jerk level drastically and noticed that the women dig it. Why is that?

2007-03-09 03:08:08 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-09 03:06:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I wrote earlier about the evil plotting slug, and your answers were very helpful. Another page in the story is that her current husband is a police officer. In another county from us, but nearby. We have even found out that she was caught speeding and almost had a head on colision with my husbands child in the back seat, but no one wrote her a ticket because of her husband. She is allowed to do whatever, whenever. I considered a restraining order, but my husband thinks that if I take that kind of action against her, it will make the situation worse. I feel as if my hands are tied. I can understand my hubby's feelings of not wanting to harm his relationship with his daughter, but where do you draw the line? It is her mother causing the problems. How does he keep a relationship with his child and allow me to take action against her? I don't feel like it is fair for my son and I to have to live w/o my husband just to make her play nice. She is relentless. I feel so caught.

2007-03-09 03:05:38 · 9 answers · asked by momof5 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and I have no idea What to get him he's Picky He has alot of clothes he has Allot of colone?what do you get a 20 year old Guy?

2007-03-09 03:05:33 · 3 answers · asked by Kstar 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriends birthday is coming up and i'm not exactly sure where i should take him..
We've been together for about 6,7 years,... and i'm running out of ideas,
i want to plan a weekend getaway, i'm in southern cali, so where should i go that's not gonna hurt my wallet too much?
Catalina island?,... casinos? Mountains? beach? he's gonna be 24,.. so I know he's not so much into six flags.. haha

2007-03-09 03:05:20 · 12 answers · asked by Abstract Expression 2 in Singles & Dating

my friends say that they are my best friends to my face and then say something entirely different behind my back.

yesterday my friend Sam let me read a note between her and two of my other friends. they all said that they don't care about my moods. one even said i get on their nerves. they don't want to hang around me.

what do you do when you feel backstabbed by friends and people you have known for nearly all your life?

2007-03-09 03:04:46 · 4 answers · asked by i_love_rain 2 in Friends

If you had a 16 year old daughter that has a 15 yr old girlfriend whom is always around or involved in any type of trouble,disrespect,and lies that my daughter does but you just cant get rid of this girl the longest ive kept her away was 3 months but they are goined at hips threaten running away if they cant see each other etc..what can i do get rid this girl or control what i think is going on?I over heard a call between them and all i heard was i'm so glad my mother didnt hear us specially when they wouldnt shut up i thought we wasnt never gona get none they was loud to then she said shh dont say nothing more over phone just in case.hmm what do you think they was talking about can that have different meanings can any excuse be used to cover that, and what would you do?please reply with opinions or ideas not critasism

2007-03-09 03:04:42 · 2 answers · asked by wh1te_diamond06 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

so we have a 15 yr gap in ages...what do i talk to her about when she finally wakes up? i think she's about 19...

2007-03-09 03:04:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well i just started talking to this girl right. She gave me her number and so we text a lot and talk to each other on our E-Mail. But when we see eachother we dont have anything to say. so please give me some ideas on what to say. Cause i feel so shy but maybe if i no what to say i wont be as much.

2007-03-09 03:04:27 · 11 answers · asked by *яσcκєт qυєєи;(: 3 in Friends

my marriage is on the brink. he wants to work it out, forgive & forget & start fresh. being a christian, divorce is quitting, a sin (circumstances depending, each divorce has it's own details, i don't mean to offend anyone or make simple of the topic). however.....even after all the forgiveness, talks, counseling, trying to start again.....

staying in the marriage brings fear and frustration. i can only imagine 5 years down the road, what if anything were to go wrong again? it so makes my head go numb when i see myself staying. but leaving, the guilt is overwhelming.

and i feel just plain happy when i am in adifferent place than here. there is so much crap behind us. my heart has become so frozen to this life.

god can give me the strength to stay. my husband wants me to stay. knowing that, am i denying what i really feel by staying? or, on the other side, am i giving in to complete selfishness by leaving?

2007-03-09 03:04:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm about to begin my quest for the perfect wedding dress, but am confused about sizing. my regular dress size is a 12-14, but I have heard that wedding dress sizes don't work that way. I can't seem to find a chart online? Does anyone know how wedding dresses are sized, and how I can figure out what my size will be before I go into a bridal store?

2007-03-09 03:04:09 · 14 answers · asked by kerri c 5 in Weddings

First of all, I havent sent any money. I have been chatting with someone I met through personals for a while. she seems very sweet, writes great letters and sends photos that do look like pro shots. OK, so it looks very convincing, and I am developing some attachment. She says she can visit US with B2 or tourist visa, and of course wants $450 to help pay. From what I have read, they do not even issue B2 visa to single women from Russia unless they have a "convincing" reason to return, ie child, business. Has anyone else been thru this or could offer advice?

2007-03-09 03:03:51 · 2 answers · asked by J H 1 in Singles & Dating