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I am a jerk. I have increased my jerk level drastically and noticed that the women dig it. Why is that?

2007-03-09 03:08:08 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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Women may be attracted to jerks, but they don't tend to stay with one. I can be a bit of a jerk, too, and the more of a jerk I am, the more the ladies seem interested. However, when you finally hook up with one, like I did, chances are the complaining and nagging will start, and they end up leaving you, usually for another jerk.

2007-03-09 05:37:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

No, I don't agree with your findings. I am not nor have I ever been attracted to jerks. I am not attracted to men who bash women either. Your problem is not in your behavior, although that probably bothers some, but in your mistrust of women. You will never be content, inside marriage or out, until you find a woman you can trust and I hope that happens for you because it sounds like you've been burned. Not all women are deceitful.

2007-03-09 03:24:20 · answer #2 · answered by Pamela 5 · 0 0

Because women realize these types of guys are broken and they feel they can change him into the type of guy they'd like to have around. The problem is, usually a man is what he is, for better or worse and all the fussing, screaming and crying in the world isn't going to make him a good man. Plus, some women LOVE to be treated like dirt. I've seen this too many times to keep count of. I'm not talking all women but a sizable portion LOVE to be treated like crap.

Don't ask me why, I don't think those women even know why but they love it.

2007-03-09 04:00:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I'm married, I'm not attracted to jerks now nor was I when I was single! Maybe when I was like 16, but I grew out of that pretty quickly. It gets old fast.

2007-03-09 03:14:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I am a married woman....my husband is often called a jerk .....it's really just that he is completely blunt and outspoken....I am the same way ........I find it very appealling not having to guess what he's thinking and getting an honest answer when I ask a question even if I won't like the answer.

2007-03-09 03:20:19 · answer #5 · answered by backwoodscountrywoman 2 · 2 0

Women are attracted to bold confident men.

A lot of guys find it easy to be a bold jerk or a nice doormat, but for whatever reason find it hard to be nice but strong and confident. Its certainly possible though.

2007-03-09 03:29:25 · answer #6 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0 0

Because they are jerks too. Don't think a jerk will attract a desent woman, not going to happen.

2007-03-09 03:18:14 · answer #7 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1 0

Because we're suckers for punishment!!

May be attracted to you - but won't stay with you....you have to decide what you want.

A long term relationship or a one night stand

2007-03-09 04:24:23 · answer #8 · answered by brenny_boo 3 · 0 0

we all want something we can't have or something that's bad for us. Male or Female.

2007-03-09 03:12:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

maybe cause then they don't have to worry about getting married...ususally the nice guys always wanna get married...geeze...who wants to get married then u never ever get any sex much less...extravagent sex...

2007-03-09 04:07:06 · answer #10 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0 0

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