how do i tell him?

Question

my bf left me a week ago. and i still love him very much and i have the feeling he still loves me. cause that not something that just go's away. but how do i tell him i want to work things out and i still love him and want to be back with him.

now he left me cause of me nothing he did i was the one who screwed it up by lying to him... what do i do?

Answer 1

It depends on how bad the lie was. If I broke up with every girl I had because she was a liar, or something, I would never have any relationships!

He is mad at you, so I would just wait until he cools down, instead of pestering him like a hungry dog. Send a few hints to him once in a while, that you still want to talk or whatever, maybe he will lighten up over time.

Answer 2

If you truly want to patch things up, tell him the full truth about your lie, and ask for his forgiveness. You may not get it. But that's all you can do. Once you make that approach, the ball will be in his court, it will be his decision.

You might want to figure out why you lied to him. To make things easier on him or you? Just because it was easier than telling the truth? If you did it to deceive him, for greed/cheating on him perhaps, it might be tough for him to forgive you. If it was just that you couldn't figure out how to tell the truth, or that you were afraid of his reaction, that's understandable, but I'm sure you clearly see that the lying just made his reaction worse than it might've been if you'd come clean at first.

Good luck with your situation.

Answer 3

Write him a long letter, Put everything that you want to say in it.Then proofread and edit it over and over again as you sit with it for awhile just to make sure it is what you want to send because you can't take it back once it's gone

Answer 4

tell him the truth about how you feel... and let him know that you are very sorry for lying to him.... ask for another chance

Answer 5

Tell him the truth,say sorry and patch up.