I try to stay positive, be a good wife and mother. Regardless of what I do, though, I feel like we are on different pages. We always seem to want different things. I'd like to live in a house, he wants "stuff" (SM Radio, new truck, XBox, Computer games, etc). I think most of our problems stem from financial issues, though neither of us can see the others point of view. He thinks I get all the money (I pay all the bills) and he gets nothing. I am going to a "good sense" money class in a couple weeks so I have really looked at our spending. Where I spend $50 a month on myself and our kids he spends about $100 on cigarettes, 30 on beer, 40 for DSL, 10 for world of warcraft fees, big car payment, xbox games, etc. He spends most of his free time gets spent playing games. I am not a "nagger". I understand him needing time to relax, but I hate feeling like we (me & the kids) come last. Please don't tell me what I should have done or not done, and I'm not leaving him. What should I do?
2007-03-09
03:01:45
·
9 answers
·
asked by
Wendy B
5
in
Marriage & Divorce