Family & Relationships - 9 March 2007

ive seen with my bf for a month and a half(im 20,hes 24)We live about a half hour away and he doesnt drive,only i do.im getting REALLY frustrated with the amount of time we spend together.last sat,i saw him but we were out at a bar,sunday we went ATVing with all his buddies.on tues i saw him,with his parents.i feel like we NEVER spend any time alone.I asked him to hang out last night but he said he was too tired i told him how i feel about this and he keeps saying i shouldnt feel that way and to just 'chill'.the fact that its like pulling teeth to see him and that were never alone make me feel like he doesnt care about me.he said that his friend sees his gf once a week and they have a perfect relationship,and when i asked him if he'd be ok with seeing me 1 a week he said yes.i think that is rediculous!especially for a new relationship.i know he hasnt had a gf in 2 years...so should i give him more time/space?how should i handle this,its really bothering me!should i act distant back?

2007-03-09 02:30:25 · 12 answers · asked by sallyh 1 in Singles & Dating

ok this guy from germany goes to my school. hes a exchange student. i really like him. should i ask him to go to the movies or something? or like ask him if i can come over? im so confused. i dont kno if he likes me like that.help

2007-03-09 02:29:56 · 2 answers · asked by Brittany 1 in Singles & Dating

When i'm in a relationship i give it everything i've got. Every guy i've ever been with has taken advantage of this. I give to the point where i make myself miserable. Every serious relationship i've had lasted to around the 3-year mark and i gave up...quit trying. I just want to be happy and make my two kids happy. Are there any good guys left that will try as hard as i do and love myself and my kids as much as we love them? I'm 29 years old and starting to lose hope for happiness.

2007-03-09 02:29:43 · 4 answers · asked by sneaky squirrel 2 in Singles & Dating

go out of my way to wear my jeans as tight as I possibly can. Is it fair to take advantage of his weakness this way...I kind of enjoy it!!! It gives me power and control, and I can make him work for what he wants.

2007-03-09 02:29:22 · 15 answers · asked by lindaminato 1 in Singles & Dating

we have been together for a year an a half an never argued about anything

2007-03-09 02:29:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

every time i gi out of town boyfriend finds a mean girlfriend.

2007-03-09 02:28:58 · 6 answers · asked by presley allen 2 in Singles & Dating

im dating this man i really like him, neither one of us has said were exclusive yet. i still really like my ex their actually friends, if any thing happened between me n my ex would the man im dating now be pissed off, for all i know he might be doing the same, is this wrong

2007-03-09 02:28:14 · 1 answers · asked by SHY1 2 in Singles & Dating

I am very new to s*x and when my boyfriend and I do it he says that he doesnt feel anything(he also took my virginity) and now he's saying it the connection. Any ideas to make me better in bed?

2007-03-09 02:27:53 · 11 answers · asked by The Worrywart 2 in Singles & Dating

Wedding will be on Long Island, I live in CT....any suggestions?

2007-03-09 02:27:13 · 5 answers · asked by lovebluenfluff 3 in Weddings

i wanna change my look. i want to be labaled something. what should i be? what are you?

2007-03-09 02:27:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 02:26:37 · 10 answers · asked by r 1 in Singles & Dating

My bosses wife has fractured both her wrists in an accident, I have to write a message ina get well card, what should I put??

2007-03-09 02:26:30 · 10 answers · asked by Megan xxx 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Person has a will drawn up and names 3 beneficiaries, all family members, to receive major share. Some years later one named beneficiary dies. What happens to the share originally allocated to the deceased beneficiary? Does it pass to their estate or is it shared between the other two beneficiaries?

2007-03-09 02:26:27 · 10 answers · asked by Cyclops 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it possible for a man to adopt his girlfriends daughter before they get married? We plan on getting married but not for another year. He's know my daughter since she was a year old and she wll be 14 in a few months. I would like her to start High School with her name changed but don't know if he can adopt her without us getting married.

2007-03-09 02:26:21 · 10 answers · asked by Valentina 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Society discriminates against those which do not want to have a monogamous, heterosexual relationship. If two people want to make a life-long commitment to each other, that's fine by me, but why should they be rewarded for it?

2007-03-09 02:26:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Had a quick interview last week, and i really want this job. He said he would know by the end of this week aka today. So i called him up on mu lunch over 3 hours ago and he said he was busy, asked how i was and said he would call me back. He asked what time was convenient for me, i said anytime(doh!) and im still waiting. So im not sure if i got the job or not. Should i call him back even though he said he was busy? or leave it until the end o the day?

2007-03-09 02:25:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

So we are 16 and have been dating for 4 1/2 months now. He has continuosly said that he loves me, and that he loves me more. We used to spend so much time together, but now, a lot of the time when he says he'll call he doesnt, he doesnt like to kiss, and he rather go play around outside than snuggle. He has never been a very sexual guy in the first place, I mean he has fingered me, etc, we dont want sex yet though, but is he losing interest, or does he just need space? I ask him alot if he still loves me, and I know i shouldnt because that can get annoying, and i should stop, but I also have major depression and i am very paranoid that he will stop liking me. Am i overreacting?
Also, on the phone, recently sometimes when i say "bye, i love you" he says"ok, bye"
Im so worried, please help!
(I love him sooo much)

2007-03-09 02:24:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm 22 year old. actually my marriage has been fixed. the problem is that i had an abortion before one year because of my mistake. although it happened due to his(the guy) pressure but it was my responsibility to check him. after this incidence i decided to never get married, because it would be to decieve that person. even i told and isisted my parant very much for not forcing me to get married , i'm not willing at all but it couldn't possible.
now i'm in contact with my would be and told him everything about my past . but i can't dare to tell him about this misshappening.
i always feel guilty , a sense of doing smthing wrong with an innocent person. althoug i know that i'm honest for Him(my would be) and will always. it's me determination.
it's my humble request to you plz plz suggest me what should i do?how i come out from this dilemma? how i pardon myself ??

2007-03-09 02:24:27 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

so i was with this guy for 10 months when he told me about some of the lies hes told me. it got me upset and i broke it off. after we broke up we decided to be friends and he told me more things about his past like he was married once and that he has 2 kids out there and 1 was with a prostitute. but before our whole breakup, i thought he was the one for me and we'd get married. he even told me that he was gonna propose in may on our 1 year anniversary. we had always had a great time together and i honestly thought itd last forever. but after the sort of breakup we were almost about to get back together but i couldnt shake off his past from my memory cuz i have this fear of becoming 1 of his "baby mamas" and him leaving me so i ended it for real this time. so my question is if i was wrong for leaving him eventhough we still love eachother. thanks for your help.

2007-03-09 02:24:06 · 15 answers · asked by koreanole 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been a wife and step-mother for three years and now a mother for three months. I am slowly watching my house turn into a disaster area! I had an extremely hard time keeping up with everything before the baby, now it seems impossible! Sometimes I think I could handle it if my husband and his son (mostly my husband) would just put things back where they got it from when they are done using them! I want to be a good homemaker, wife, and mother but I am beginning to resent my husband for not doing his part. We haven't been intimate more than twice since the baby and I fear for my marrage and my family. Any advise??

2007-03-09 02:23:52 · 74 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

so i was with this guy for 10 months when he told me about some of the lies hes told me. it got me upset and i broke it off. after we broke up we decided to be friends and he told me more things about his past like he was married once and that he has 2 kids out there and 1 was with a prostitute. but before our whole breakup, i thought he was the one for me and we'd get married. he even told me that he was gonna propose in may on our 1 year anniversary. we had always had a great time together and i honestly thought itd last forever. but after the sort of breakup we were almost about to get back together but i couldnt shake off his past from my memory cuz i have this fear of becoming 1 of his "baby mamas" and him leaving me so i ended it for real this time. so my question is if i was wrong for leaving him eventhough we still love eachother. thanks for your help.

2007-03-09 02:23:41 · 14 answers · asked by koreanole 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 02:23:11 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

does anyone has interesting ways??

2007-03-09 02:20:42 · 21 answers · asked by Rohit 1 in Weddings

OK, so we broke up last year in October. He has a new girlfriend, and I have a new boyfriend. So everytime he sees me in the hall, he either calls me a *****, a sl*t, or who*e, calls my boyfriend gay, f*g, and jacka*s.

My question is..since we broke up such a long time ago shouldn't he be over it by now? Why do you think he is behaving this way?

2007-03-09 02:19:56 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 02:19:53 · 20 answers · asked by baby girl 1 in Singles & Dating

what shall i gift to my good friend(female)

2007-03-09 02:19:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

especially if you were totally clueless about it and he admitted it to you right after it ended (he slept with same girl 4 times nov-jan left midway through last time and confessed)

plus the ***** is fat old ugly with 5 kids(maybe 15 years older than me and gave him head which i never did and he always begged for) plus i hadnt had sex with him over a month and before that only like once a week or every 2 weeks.

his apoligy seemed sincere and he completely changed his behavior? plus you got 2 small babies together and 6 years together.

2007-03-09 02:19:38 · 8 answers · asked by maylene1852 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so a work freind of mine who i go to lunch with every day has a wierd obsession with going to the bank (HSBC)!!She has to go every single lunch time for some reason or another!She couldnt get out at lunch the other day so she even made the effort to go all the way there after work!!! Half the time im sure she just makes up silly reasons to go just for the sake of it!!
What is wrong with her??She is driving me mad dragging me down there every single day!! How can i tell her how annoying it is?? x

2007-03-09 02:19:35 · 21 answers · asked by jo 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 02:19:26 · 12 answers · asked by connie w 1 in Singles & Dating

this is deffinatly off subject but why is it, that everyone comments about some guy wanting to get between your legs or they say to bring condoms....thats ****** sick and im only 14 and i aint ever gonna do it with a guy!!!!!

2007-03-09 02:17:37 · 29 answers · asked by gerri s 1 in Singles & Dating