I am very new to s*x and when my boyfriend and I do it he says that he doesnt feel anything(he also took my virginity) and now he's saying it the connection. Any ideas to make me better in bed?
2007-03-09 02:27:53 · 11 answers · asked by The Worrywart 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find a better guy.
2007-03-09 02:30:39 · answer #1 · answered by rilindy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The emotional connection is what makes a couples s*x life "over the top"... So, I would begin there.
There isn't one "thing" you can do physically because anyone is capable of that. It's what you give him emotionally that sets you apart and makes you THAT special to him.
Vice Versa.....
2007-03-09 10:35:03 · answer #2 · answered by ~Me~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure your comfortable with him. Look in his eyes and kiss him. If it doesn't bother you, take his penis in your mouth and have oral sex with him before you have intercourse. Make sure you touch him. Also, this may be the hardest part, tell him what you want him to do. Discover what you like and don't like. Tell him how he is making you feel.
2007-03-09 10:32:56 · answer #3 · answered by Horace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he is a very poor lover..
You need only be submissive, enthusiastic, responsive
and receptive to new things...
He is the driver of the train...
2007-03-09 10:33:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs to teach you the way that turns him on.. he cant expect you to perform instantly , maybe he is the lost connection and dont know much either.so he blames you.
2007-03-09 10:33:17 · answer #5 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a karma sutra book
2007-03-09 10:31:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stab him in the back with a knife and ask him "do you feel it now?"
2007-03-09 10:31:30 · answer #7 · answered by JAMES 1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch porno movies. Seriously, you will learn.
2007-03-09 10:33:39 · answer #8 · answered by maybe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just take it slow adn it will all go right so yea
2007-03-09 10:30:52 · answer #9 · answered by flipchick10377 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be more playful, do something different or see a sex therapist.
2007-03-09 10:31:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋