2007-03-09 02:19:53 · 20 answers · asked by baby girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You and my ex would get along just fine. I don't know if she actually cheated on me or not. But well now that she's dumped the last guy she was with all she wants and thinks about is me why? I'd like a view point from another girl here on this. Try talking with him and tell him it hurts you terribly about what you did to him and that you really are sorry and that if he'd only give you another chance you'd prove this time that you're his and there is no one else and that your heart and eyes and mind are only for him. Then prove it not only with words but also actions and no I don't mean just sex either. I hope it works out. My question to you is besides why she wants me back is should I take my separated ex gf and fiance back? Yes we were engaged for a while. email me personally on that question asker thanks.
2007-03-09 02:26:06 · answer #1 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on 1. how long ago it has been since you were together 2. if he is over the fact that you cheated on him
people DO get back together despite what people may think. If you and him are in a different mindset than u were before then ex's can work out...but then again sometimes it doesn't b/c ppl cant let go of hurt.
It takes time sweetheart...a lot of time.
2007-03-09 02:25:33 · answer #2 · answered by so_sincere 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would he want you again? If you are dishonest than you destroy the relationship.
Trust and true friendship make the foundation of a relationship. Once you remove that trust, you have removed the friendship and the relationship and you have nothing.
He would be wise to not get back together with you. You would be wise to find someone else and learn how to build a real relationship built on trust, which means no cheating.
Learn from your mistakes and you will be a better person.
Take care,
Troy
2007-03-09 02:29:52 · answer #3 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, unless you were engaged, you have every right in the world to 'cheat' on him with another guy ..... you are not obliged to be faithful to him ..... you just date him, he is just your boyfriend, not your fiance ....... if he wishes to go, let him go and find someone else ...... and if he wishes to come back, make an arrangement to have an open relationship so you both can date others, stop wasting time and find someone you would like to marry ......why waste your youth mooning after some guy when you could find someone you really love?
Peace & Love
2007-03-09 02:28:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly, you probably can't. Men can't stand the idea of being cheated on; nor can women. It's a trust issue that you've vilolated. I've been cheated on more than once, and I never took the guy back; later to hear he was doing that to someone else.
2007-03-09 02:24:56 · answer #5 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to hurt this guy all over again??? Did you make a mistake on cheating on him?? Sometimes its just better to forget about it. Would you go out with a guy that cheated on you??
2007-03-09 02:24:05 · answer #6 · answered by *SeXyB* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He must learn to trust you again. You see most guys think the woman is their prize trophy. Don't show that you are hard up but at the same time if you really care for him be as honest as possible in the relationship.
2007-03-09 02:28:11 · answer #7 · answered by love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would never date you again, EVER.
I don't think you should bother, you messed up. If you really wanted him as your boyfriend, you wouldn't of cheated on him.
2007-03-09 02:29:37 · answer #8 · answered by bladeshaven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't get him to if he doesn't want too. You can try to ask for forgiveness and tell him you would like to try again, but remember, a trust has been broken by you, and he may need time to get over that (if you are sincere this time).
2007-03-09 02:26:33 · answer #9 · answered by CL R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show him your sincerity on turning over a new leaf..trust is not something that you can get instantly..you need to build it up slowly..prove it to him that..unless if you're not serious abt him and is just going back to him as you found the other guy not fun to hang out with..check on your priorities..try your best..maybe you can get the results you yearned so much for..
2007-03-09 02:27:46 · answer #10 · answered by project_vk_03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋