ive seen with my bf for a month and a half(im 20,hes 24)We live about a half hour away and he doesnt drive,only i do.im getting REALLY frustrated with the amount of time we spend together.last sat,i saw him but we were out at a bar,sunday we went ATVing with all his buddies.on tues i saw him,with his parents.i feel like we NEVER spend any time alone.I asked him to hang out last night but he said he was too tired i told him how i feel about this and he keeps saying i shouldnt feel that way and to just 'chill'.the fact that its like pulling teeth to see him and that were never alone make me feel like he doesnt care about me.he said that his friend sees his gf once a week and they have a perfect relationship,and when i asked him if he'd be ok with seeing me 1 a week he said yes.i think that is rediculous!especially for a new relationship.i know he hasnt had a gf in 2 years...so should i give him more time/space?how should i handle this,its really bothering me!should i act distant back?
2007-03-09 02:30:25 · 12 answers · asked by sallyh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, been there, done that! It's a hard thing to deal wiht, but if he wanted to spend time with you, he would. Instead of waiting around for him, how about trying to find someone who wants to be with you as much as you want to be with him. How about treating yourself with the respect that you are obviously not getting from your boyfriend.
2007-03-09 02:36:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't call that a relationship I would call it an appointment. ANd the friend is lying their is no girl who has a bf and agrees to see him once a week not unless he lives 500 miles away. He is pulling your leg. You shoudljust kcik him to the curb and move on without him. If you'll already have had sex that's all he wanted and now doesn't know how to tell you he doesn't want to be with you anymore, only as friends maybe. SO give him teh boot and find another guy who will want to see you everyday not once a week. Especially just to have sex.
2007-03-09 10:38:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've gotta lighten up lass. Men usually get uncomfortable with clingy types. So if I were you, find some other way to make your devotion felt. Do something constructive. Grab a good book. Cook a decent meal. Do whatever you enjoy. He'll come around in time. Good luck!
2007-03-09 10:51:14 · answer #3 · answered by martelli88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!
bring it up. Either ask him some more or explain to him that you do not feel comfortable when more people are around you and him, when you want some alone time.
If he does not respect your decsion then its time to find another guy
I am sorry if this is not the answer you want but he needs to repect your needs and wants while you also respect his. but it seems like to me that he does not to you.
=) hope this helps a little
2007-03-09 10:36:43 · answer #4 · answered by cr80exp2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that is what he wants it sounds like he wants to follow his friends you know i would call him for that week and i wouldn't go by either i would do something i like weather he likes it or not and have fun he calls push him to the side like he does you tell him your with friends or you cant break away schedule my friend does it and it drives her boyfriend crazy sometimes then he wants to play boyfriend
2007-03-09 10:44:02 · answer #5 · answered by D.Gunn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find something else to besides worrying about how much time you spend with you BOYfriend...
2007-03-09 10:34:10 · answer #6 · answered by mikey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you push him you will lose him. He needs to establish a friendship first. good for him.
2007-03-09 10:34:51 · answer #7 · answered by blue2blnde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not matured yet, get a real man, even older than him..you need maturity and affecction from a man.
2007-03-09 10:36:36 · answer #8 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find a new b/f.
2007-03-09 10:34:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to talk this over with him.
2007-03-09 10:34:02 · answer #10 · answered by squ_ishy07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋