can i see someone els?

Question

im dating this man i really like him, neither one of us has said were exclusive yet. i still really like my ex their actually friends, if any thing happened between me n my ex would the man im dating now be pissed off, for all i know he might be doing the same, is this wrong

Answer 1

say to him 'i really like you, i just want to check i know where we are, are we exclusive' or something like that (that sounds natural to you!). if you're not ready to commit to him then make sure he knows it. even if you're not ready to commit to him then seeing his friend is not a good idea, it could cause all sorts of problems.

you really need to decide what's important to you and what you want x