so i was with this guy for 10 months when he told me about some of the lies hes told me. it got me upset and i broke it off. after we broke up we decided to be friends and he told me more things about his past like he was married once and that he has 2 kids out there and 1 was with a prostitute. but before our whole breakup, i thought he was the one for me and we'd get married. he even told me that he was gonna propose in may on our 1 year anniversary. we had always had a great time together and i honestly thought itd last forever. but after the sort of breakup we were almost about to get back together but i couldnt shake off his past from my memory cuz i have this fear of becoming 1 of his "baby mamas" and him leaving me so i ended it for real this time. so my question is if i was wrong for leaving him eventhough we still love eachother. thanks for your help.
2007-03-09 02:23:41 · 14 answers · asked by koreanole 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He doesn't sound like prince charming to me. He broke down and finally told you the truth about some(?) things he had lied about or kept hidden. Is there more that he hasn't said to you that you need to know? Are you willing to find out the hard way. Also, if he's had sex with prostitute and they have a baby that means it was unprotected sex. You don't know what he has exposed you too. However, how would a prostitute know it was his? Everything he has said to you is suspect. It sounds like you should seek love elsewhere. So, no, you were not wrong to leave.
2007-03-09 02:34:58 · answer #1 · answered by Alchemist 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Babygirl a tiger not only has stripes in fis fur, but he has striped skin. You can shave him and you will still see stripes. That was a good lie wasn't it. If you know I am a liar and you continue to listen to my lies. I can tell you enough to make you love me too. You got to let the liar go or you can keep on hoping he will change and I guarantee you the same feeling you have now will return over and over again.
2007-03-17 08:29:25 · answer #2 · answered by 21questions 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
real love is stronger than anything and nothing can tear it apart however that is so **** (excuse me)... if u really love him and you feel like he loves you take time to put da past behind you and make it work. take a lil break for now. this will be hard but if u feel like he has changed for the better and yalls relationship is more important than this mess. try!! now if u dont love him like u think let it go becuz its too much heartache for nothing.
everybody has a past and some worst than others. try to be a lil understanding and see where he's coming from. its the present and future that he and you can control. if u can deal wit it give him another try(play hard to get & make it hard as hell) and if u can leave him alone completely.
2007-03-16 21:31:47 · answer #3 · answered by swag225 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get DOWN on your knees, Girl,and thank your lucky stars. Just your "baby mamas" comment gave it ALL away. He's a player. MOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOve on!! Some women aren't so lucky. They don't get away in time. Look around you. .how many baby's mamas are out there?? Thousands!! Dont BE one of them! Its a game to some guys,see how many kids they can make in a lifetime-forget SUPPORTING Them or being w/the woman!
2007-03-17 10:09:52 · answer #4 · answered by kcbarbieq 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay you were so not wrong in leaving him for shure it was the right thing to do
it may feel wrong b/c you still love him but in the long run it will be for the best b/c you deffanitly wont end up one of his baby mamas
good going
2007-03-17 10:19:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think You wasn't`t wrong for leaving him.I mean it`s your choice if you want to break up with him and what if he really does give you a baby and leaves you?So,be with the man you truly love that god blesses you with.BUT,if you are still in love with him,GO AHEAD!Be with him but it will probably be a big mistake.
2007-03-17 09:03:40 · answer #6 · answered by Kelli G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were so right on! He is a father and not taking care of his children that is obvious. count your blessings and good for you you could walk away from this guy, he wouldn't treat you any different. people don't change...maybe for a bit but in time go back to their way of life. stay focused and move on.
2007-03-17 10:14:59 · answer #7 · answered by brown eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you weren't wrong for leaving him. Marriage is about honesty, commitment, and love. He failed on two of those requirements. I don't think you would ever be able to trust him. Never look back.
2007-03-17 09:52:48 · answer #8 · answered by teacher sub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you were right for breaking up with him that is just too much to lie about. And who knows if he's telling you the truth.You might love him but you love yourself more! stay strong.
2007-03-17 10:24:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were right to break it off if he admitted to lying to you. I wonder how many lies he told his other babies mothers?
2007-03-17 09:36:34 · answer #10 · answered by Dianne S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋