Family & Relationships - 9 March 2007

I am sure i speak for a lot of women out here when i ask this....i know alot of guys who like thicker women and they seem to have no trouble admitting it either, but i just wondered about out here?

2007-03-09 02:39:33 · 18 answers · asked by Shanni1 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 02:39:06 · 13 answers · asked by sormit 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When I think of all the good times I could have had in my late teens and twenties, it makes me sick to my stomach. I have had a girlfriend for 6 months and it's just fine now but when she tells me what fun she had in her twenties, I can't help but think about what I missed. I couldn't get a girlfriend then because I was too shy, too effeminate, too unattractive, too this or too that. If it hadn't been for online dating, I would still be a virgin. If only that had been invented a little sooner. I know that I'll never catch up on what I missed out on because of my age and maturity. Anyway, it sure would be nice to put what didn't happen for me behind me and to get it out of my mind. I'm having trouble doing that.

2007-03-09 02:38:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Feeling really sorry for myself and need some cuddles and love and cheering up, any offers?

2007-03-09 02:38:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 18 I've Been Married for 3 years and i have a 3 yr old son. And I love my husband but he don't do the things he used to. Well me and this guy at work, we havien't done anything YET but oh my gosh he is erassistable! what should I do how do I quit?

2007-03-09 02:38:22 · 26 answers · asked by tiffahilley 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex and I were together for five years, we splitted up December of 2005, but regardless of that we were still in touch and of course I loved her. Her excuse was, she just wanted to be alone, and time for her to go to school and work. So I understood her situation, and we have been like this for a year and a couple of months. We talk, we go out, we have gone to trips together, she knows how much I love her, she knows I've been as patient as I can, cause I just want to be with her. But after a year, she still tells me the same thing, that she wants no commitment right now. But then I get confused, we go out and she treats me as if I was her boyfriend, she gets jealous, etc. Then on normal days, when we dont see each other, she acts like she doesnt care, she is selfish, and has lot of pride. I've been trying to do my best, specially to be patient, but now Im really confused and desperate. I love her so much but I dont know what to do now...

2007-03-09 02:38:14 · 16 answers · asked by guerrero0020 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well i broke up with him like two months ago and he said he would just leave me alone. Well after we broke up he would call me and text me all the time saying he loved me i tryed to ignore it. Then like a week ago i went to the mall and he showed up so i started to leave and he followed me out. So we were out in the parking lot in the rain and he wouldnt let me leave for about 15 mins. But right before he let me leave he made me kiss him. He literally made me he grabed me and forced me to kiss him. Then a few days after that i saw him at the park and he did the same thing. I havent talked to him since the day at the park but im still worried. Am i paranoid if not what do i do?

2007-03-09 02:38:05 · 14 answers · asked by cute_and_hott_1 1 in Singles & Dating

we have been together for a year an a half an never argued about anything

2007-03-09 02:37:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

will a guy be able to tell if you have little experiance? I am 20 and a vrigin. I really havent gone further than making out. And will he care?

2007-03-09 02:37:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The other song I was thinking about didn't get a good reaction from those that answered my question of whether to use Jimmy Buffett's (Why don't we Get Drunk?) so I have found a song that I have loved for years and thought maybe it would be great for my bridal party to dance to. What does everyone think of the song "Let's Get Married" by Jagged Edge? no suggestions of using "Friends in Low Places" by Garth Brooks. I love country, but it is over-used so that it is boring now. thanks for all suggestions.

2007-03-09 02:36:56 · 6 answers · asked by Stephanie 1 in Weddings

well THIS GUY I like is mad at me and we did not talk for 1 month and I LOVE HIM what do I DO

2007-03-09 02:36:48 · 7 answers · asked by Lovely_girl 1 in Singles & Dating

ohkay!
there was this guy who liked me in the 7th grade .... and well.... i dint know how to react to it so i dissed him..... n he liked me in the 8th grade.... and den i sortof started to like him back.... and during summer i realised that i really liked him.... so in the new skool year i tried to move it up a bit by showing hints dat i like him too.... but now instead of returning the favor.... he dating this other girl.... who is lik a B****! but he is acting a bit weird abt her.... lik getting too obssesive and all and it clearly shows dat she sooo dosent like him back....
wat do i do?

2007-03-09 02:36:15 · 7 answers · asked by yellow_bee91 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 02:36:12 · 1 answers · asked by smoker 1 in Singles & Dating

How do tell your fiance that you been with for /for 3yrs that you need space? Its so hard for me to do it. Im afraid he's going to commit suicide or go nuts on me. Im just getting to realize so many wrong things about him. My problelm is I don't talk. I bottle things in. Im too nice. Its always the good ones that get screwed over. I wanna be single. I want to go on vacations with the girls, meet new ppl make new friends, learn something new. I want to be able to go somewhere and not have to say where im going, when im coming home, whos coming with me etc. This sucks.

2007-03-09 02:35:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a huge question , but befor i ask i should know who is going to answer because i need the real person for the question

2007-03-09 02:35:29 · 2 answers · asked by heney 1 in Singles & Dating

it happened in Jul 06, My fiance went to a strip club, and got a lap dance. But at first he told me, nothing happened. Then I found out through someone, that he got a lap dance. I can't get over it! WHY? Now, I think about it more and more because we're getting married this June. He went to Stilettos in Nyack, NY. How bad do they get with their customers? He says he is telling me the truth, but he lied to me about getting one, so should I just brush it off, like no big deal? He says the lights were dim, he couldn't see anyone around him, but he said the girl danced around his leg, but from what I've been reading, they grind on the man's area....Desperately looking for some way to ease my mind. What should I do?

2007-03-09 02:34:47 · 15 answers · asked by Caroline S 2 in Singles & Dating

I know there are alot of men who cook really well and wouldn't mind coming home everyday from a long day at work and still get that cookin done...would you?

i don't cook for my husband (we both have full time jobs), so i'm just wondering how many men expect this from their girlfriends/wives or if they wouldn't mind hookin it up for her...

2007-03-09 02:34:31 · 9 answers · asked by **Lil QT** 4 in Singles & Dating

I really fancy the boy from the MullerLight adverts. The one where he's travelling round looking for snacks as good as MullerLight. He's so cute in a lanky-geeky too-embarrased-to-tell-my-friends type-way.

2007-03-09 02:34:19 · 21 answers · asked by bumpity-bump 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I’m getting out of a relationship and my best friend is getting out of a relationship, but we both realize that we have feeling for one another that we would like to pursue, but the time is just too soon. My marriage was 4 years and his relationship was 2 years. We decided that it was too soon for both of us and we needed a chance to heal from our past relationships first, lest we doom what could end up being a very wonderful thing for both of us. He was my first love and we were very close when we were younger, until we were forced to part by our families. How long should we wait before we attempt any type of relationship? On average how long would it take for us to be emotionally ready? I know it depends on the person, but just for arguments sake.

2007-03-09 02:33:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Todays woman wear fack nails, hair and god knows whats next fack teeth and eyes.

2007-03-09 02:33:34 · 6 answers · asked by sehoy 3 in Singles & Dating

should I send flowers to the hospital or the house?

2007-03-09 02:32:49 · 15 answers · asked by Lotus 2 in Friends

i know this guy likes me but, he's always with his freinds and i want to tell him how i feel but not when he's with his friends. sometimes i catch him by himself and he usually tries to talk to me but then i freeze up and get scared and dont do it. but i will do it soon. so what can i say to tell him i like him. i dont just wanna say " hey i like you" cuz thats lame. what do you think. like what hints can i drop.

2007-03-09 02:32:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys and girls... help me out on this... please think hard and gimme the most creative of ideas.....

2007-03-09 02:32:39 · 20 answers · asked by Jay 3 in Singles & Dating

Someone they just simply ain't..? I dont get the whole concept? Im a 30 year old happily married, stay at home mom....With three beautiful children....i have a masters degree in psychology, and worked as a social worker for the depatment of social services...And its remarkable how people get on this site, and make such derogatory remarks to the people on here...Does anybody take in the consideration that children might be on the other end? I say this because my children use this site as a place for fun and knowledge..But after reading some of the pathetic questions, I just simply have to say! Some' and i express some people on here just dont give out mature possitive input... I Realize that most of the people on here are just kids, But what about the people claiming to be adults? Some with the most pathetic derogatory statements, And some claiming to even as going as far as saying they have children, While making dergrading comments..What example are they trying to set ?

2007-03-09 02:32:34 · 10 answers · asked by TABITHA 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so my ex boyfriend of four years ask me out the other day. we have been broken up for 5 months and he told everybody he did not want to be with me any more. so i told him no because i thought he was joking. then he told my friend how upset he was. and i really love him. but now he is dating somebody else he told me he didn't even like. so what do i do.

2007-03-09 02:32:17 · 4 answers · asked by jennifer 2 in Singles & Dating

I feel so bad for my husband. We have been married for 8 years. Together for 10 years. At first we had sex all the time. After we got married we didn't have it as often. He always asks me to "do it" and I get all defensive. It's like a job that I hate going to. I sometimes have to make myself do it. I love him very much and thought that it was my lack of self confidence that made me this way. Could that be it? What is wrong with me?

2007-03-09 02:32:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

And I don't mean "You've got nice eyes" or something like that, I mean something that made you go "Wow!" afterwards or have some sort of emotional response. For example I once complimented a girl and she burst into tears because no one had said anything like that to her before - that's the type of thing I want to know about.

2007-03-09 02:32:00 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this guy through an online dating source, the only thing is he lives in NY and I live in St. Louis. We've talked online of course, exchanged pics, used a webcam, talked on the phone, his mom knows about me, he's a really sweet guy, we hit it off whenever we talk, he's there for me when I'm sad, etc. We've been doing this for about 3 months now, everyday. Well now we would like to meet up. What is the best way of doing this since we are in 2 different states? Should he fly to me, me fly to him, or meet in an in-between city? I'm 26, he's 30 by the way.

2007-03-09 02:31:23 · 5 answers · asked by V i P b A b Y 1 in Singles & Dating

want more info, they sent me pkg info.. wanna know if anyone has used them.

2007-03-09 02:31:13 · 1 answers · asked by shelle 1 in Weddings

When she goes to school she always want to wear those ugly glasses! And I try to make her wear contacts. She looks horrible in her clothes so I made her do some lunges as a punishment and now her @ss looks so much better and plump. Lately she's been throwing up her food, and I whoop her @ss everyday just to remind her its not cute to be anorexic. I Also made her do some more lunges so her butt wouldnt look flat, and she said kiss my flat @ss! I was outraged I'm trying to help her look good but she wants to look skinny with no curves! She's mad at me because I got butt implants and I told her if she make good grades I'll get her some too so now she makes bad grades on purpose! Im thinking about moving to an extension cord! What do I do with a skinny little brat who gets on my nerves???

2007-03-09 02:30:35 · 10 answers · asked by nicky w 1 in Family