Cheating:What should I do?

Question

I'm 18 I've Been Married for 3 years and i have a 3 yr old son. And I love my husband but he don't do the things he used to. Well me and this guy at work, we havien't done anything YET but oh my gosh he is erassistable! what should I do how do I quit?

Answer 1

Well cheating is always a difficult thing to contemplate. Why do some do it and others avoid at the risk of death. Statistics tell us that about 50% of all men have cheated and about 63% of all women, at some point during their life. I think that indicates human nature, not sin or weakness, so do what you want, but i don't ultimately think its the end of the world should either party have a little sex on the side.

Answer 2

Well if your husband isn't doing the things like he used too. Well have a talk with him and explain to him how you feel and ask him why. Don't tell him about the co-worker. But to be m arried at 15 is kinda young, but you should worry more about your life with your son and husband first before bed hopping. SO take the time to communicate with your husband then think of what can happen if you get caught having an affair. Maybe the guy at work just wnats a piece of tail. SO be carefull what you do from now on you have lots of responsibilities and remember once you make your bed all you can do is lie on it.

Answer 3

Do not have an affair!

You need to stop thinking about the "erasistable" guy and and instead focus on the happiness and well being of your 3 year old son.
Maybe you were too young to be married but you got yourself into it by having unprotected sex with a boy.
It is now your job to keep your marriage stable so that your little boy can grow up in a home that has a mom and dad. your son does not need a a broken home!
If you want to have an affair, wait 15 years until your son is 18 and then do what you want.
And please, make sure you are using protection with your husband or better yet, get your tubes tied!

Answer 4

Why did you marry in the first place? Do you love your husband? Are you ready to bring another man into your home, knowing your son will see?
What do you think is going to happen? When you get caught? Ask yourself these questions first before you decide to CHEAT. Is it going to be worth all the hassles or do you think it's over between you and your husband. Is your husband cheating on you? Are you bored of your life? Is there a way to bring the romance back into your married life? Just ask yourself. DO YOU LOVE YOUR HUSBAND and are you willing to put romance back into your married life or not? Think about it. If you answer all these questions and realized your marriage is over. Then call it quits with your husband,. Getting caught in the act is too nasty for both parties and YOUR CHILD.

Answer 5

Girl, you got married WAY too young. I'm sure you know that. I feel bad for you because it's going to be hard to be committed for the rest of your life to someone you married when you were 15. You had no idea what was out there in the world at that age...and you still don't. This will not be the last time that temptation will come around, I can assure you. Sometimes getting married just because you had a baby is not the best thing to do. Actually, MOST of the time it's not the best thing to do. Good luck to you in whatever you choose.

Answer 6

You got married at a young age and now you have to live with that. You are being selfish by going behind your husbands back and cheating on him. Us married women always have temptation but you said your wedding vows and now you need to respect those vows. You wanted to grow up way to fast and that was a decision you made. I try to tell the young girls that they should wait before they think about settling down. You could be just thinking you are missing out on something because you got married so young. You now have to be an adult and be the best mommy you know how to. You will be hurting your child as well. If this man is abusive then it is another story I would say divorce him but you did not mention that so you must respect your vows.

Answer 7

O my gosh sweetheart! You are soo young! No wonder your relationship is going down hill. I don't mean to be mean, but the reason your relationship with your husband is changing is because you married and had a child at such a young age. That time in your life is to grow up and experiment with life. If you are unhappy with your husband, maybe it's time for a counseling or even a divorce. You don't want to cheat on him, have him find out, then leave you, and have him take your child. Talk to your husband about how you are feeling. Explain that maybe you should go to counseling because you can't help but feel this way. You need to think about what you are doing with your life. Go to school and concentrate on your child, forget about guys right now.

Take care.

Answer 8

i think that you should try and talk to your husband (not about the other guy tho...). tell him how you feel, and then try and work on it together. really, do you do all the things that you did in the begining? try doing some things like that.

if that doesnt work and you arent happy, then maybe a divorce is needed so that you can be w/ the guy you work w/.

cheating is a BAD idea, and you will regret it for a VERY long time so try not to go down that road...

Answer 9

You got married when you were only 15 years old? Wow!

You're doing what most 18 year olds do but the problem is you're married with a child. Try to talk to a minister or a marriage counselor....I don't see this marriage lasting if you don't.

Answer 10

Make it clear to this guy that you don't want anything to do with him. If he makes advances towards you, tell him you'll report it as sexual harrassment.
If it's you that can't control yourself, I suggest you quit before you do something that you'll definitely regret. This will affect your marriage and your relationship with your son is so many ways if you consider doing something with your co-worker.

Hope all goes well. Just keep thinking about how important your husband and your son are to you! ♥