Feeling really sorry for myself and need some cuddles and love and cheering up, any offers?
2007-03-09 02:38:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah don't worry wee honey, everything will be fine.
Heres a big hug.........
2007-03-09 02:52:01 · answer #1 · answered by Sandie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we all have times when we feel like that, although some people would never admit it. In my experience, feeling sorry for ourselves often equates with feeling unloved or unwanted. I have days when it seems that nobody likes me and others when everyone greets me with a smile. So much of it is in our head, I think and it can be hard to judge what others are really thinking of us. We aren't mind readers after all and how many times have you come to the wrong conclusion when you try?
We all like to receive the milk of human kindness and sometimes it seems the shelf is empty. Look around you. There are many other customers seeking the same. You can tell them by the dejected look on their faces. Go to one and ask for their story. When you have listened, turn again and you'll see that the shelf has suddenly become full and before you know it you have handed bottles of it to your new friend and have lots over for yourself.
It sure works for me. Put more simply, we all benefit from expressions of friendliness, the giver as much as the receiver. I love having hugs myself and have learnt how to give and to receive without embarrassment or offence. The secret is to do it just like children do, unconditionally and without reserve. People, even those I hardly know or have just met, have told me that that was just what they needed. When that happens I walk away feeling ten feet tall. Give it a try and lucky are those who receive it from you when you do.
2007-03-09 15:52:16 · answer #2 · answered by Bunnylove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a hug and cuddle coming your way! Every now and them we all need a little self pity but this too shall pass. Remember that it takes both rain and sunshine to make a rainbow.
2007-03-09 10:48:09 · answer #3 · answered by scpathfinder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wud luv to try and cheer you up and give you a nice long warm cuddle. E-mail me if you want to know more xx
2007-03-09 10:46:50 · answer #4 · answered by Zaksta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its Friday pull yourself together phone afew Friends,get a btle of wine and have an evening on the town, if not of course ill give you a cuddle
2007-03-09 10:50:07 · answer #5 · answered by bigjamsie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sending you a big girly hug, with a shoulder to cry on if needs be,
xxx
2007-03-09 10:44:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is bear hug for you. Are you feeling good. Hope your day will bright and full of happiness.
2007-03-09 10:50:03 · answer #7 · answered by gowry k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big manly hug from me - with no funny business attached lol x
2007-03-09 10:45:17 · answer #8 · answered by misbehave4me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just thought - if there was an alien down here reading this rubbish, would he really believe that you could send cuddles down wires.............because I certainly don't ! ! !
2007-03-09 10:56:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happy Be-Lated International Women's Day (It was yesterday).
2007-03-09 10:43:04 · answer #10 · answered by SPORTS GUY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋