Well i broke up with him like two months ago and he said he would just leave me alone. Well after we broke up he would call me and text me all the time saying he loved me i tryed to ignore it. Then like a week ago i went to the mall and he showed up so i started to leave and he followed me out. So we were out in the parking lot in the rain and he wouldnt let me leave for about 15 mins. But right before he let me leave he made me kiss him. He literally made me he grabed me and forced me to kiss him. Then a few days after that i saw him at the park and he did the same thing. I havent talked to him since the day at the park but im still worried. Am i paranoid if not what do i do?
2007-03-09 02:38:05 · 14 answers · asked by cute_and_hott_1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are not paranoid. Unfortunately, restraining orders can make things worse. No one told me that until after I took one out. I think you need to do everything you can to stay away from any place that ya'll ever went together, or that he knows you go. Is it possible to move somewhere for a while? He is VERY DANGEROUS AND SICK. Don't think for a second that you can reason with him as though he's sane. Knowing what I know now, I would have just moved to an unknown location and never have gotten the police involved. It was a false sense of security. You're not going to be able to beat him off with a piece of paper. The police aren't going to do anything until something happens.
2007-03-16 16:06:55 · answer #1 · answered by lady 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends a lot on what you mean by wouldn't "let" you leave and "made" you kiss him.
But whether or not there was physical coercion of any kind, call the police immediately. There are two reasons for this:
1. They can give you advice and possibly other help
2. You're establishing a track record so that later calls if needed will be taken more seriously.
2007-03-09 04:57:54 · answer #2 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This could be serious my friends sister was hurt baldy by a guy and it started like that. Go get an order of restraint and a pistol. I pray you don't have to shoot him, but my friends sister's face is permenantly disfigured. I gave her the very same advice I am giving you. She tells me all the time how much she wish she would of listened. If you do choose to get a gun. Please go get an order of restraint first to cover your azz. If you get one and he comes near you and you are not comfortable you will get in no trouble at all for putting some lead in his stalking azz. If he is being mildly forceful now and you keep giving in and kissing him anyway. I promise you it will get worse especially once you find another man. i wish you luck. Even if you don't get a gun. Go get that court order. That may make him think twice before bothering you again,
2007-03-17 01:45:43 · answer #3 · answered by 21questions 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be a good idea to take a friend or relative with you the next time you need to go out. He's trying to control you, and that is not healthy. You might want to get information on a restraining order if this behavior continues.
2007-03-09 02:58:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
unluckly, once you have let a person so far into your life and relationships,, your now going to know them forever....so few hours or days or weeks,, is no change in how they behave,,,
best answer if your so sure and scared,, moved to a new town and never do such a dumb mistake again... some lessions are very hard in life... good luck kiddo
2007-03-16 18:05:58 · answer #5 · answered by wgggn_babyjim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a tazer gun..and zap his ***...i had a bf like that but worse!he was abusive and everytime i broke up with him he would show up at my house and make a scene.youre not paranoid...your ex is crazy....get a restraining order against him......and do it fast.he seems like a stalker.he's following you everywhere.just be careful.and always have someone with you...
2007-03-17 02:18:11 · answer #6 · answered by Itsjustme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shoud be very afraid. If he would force you to kiss him, he'll force you to do other things. He might become a stalker, I would get a protection order if I were you.
2007-03-09 02:55:08 · answer #7 · answered by Cocoa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're not paranoid..this ain't what normal guys would do..
you can give him a stern warning..if he still does not comply, pls do not resort to violence..just inform the police that he is harrassing you..
2007-03-09 02:56:40 · answer #8 · answered by project_vk_03 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who "makes you do" something is trouble. Get help. Be strong.
2007-03-17 03:28:02 · answer #9 · answered by Monkey's uncle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're being harrassed. if he do it again. tell him you're filing a case against him. he doesnt love you. he loves himself. he needs psychological help.
2007-03-16 20:43:28 · answer #10 · answered by ilyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋