we have been together for a year an a half an never argued about anything
2007-03-09 02:37:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i feel that marriage is a reflection of the love, effort and care two people put into it.
looks like you've been working at it very well!
"everyone" must be jealous or envious that you have a nice marriage.
keep up the good work!
2007-03-09 02:46:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is going to change? The happiness you had while just being dating each other?
Yes, it will change; you two will now have to confront life. The world is going to be against you two, so both of you must be together and overcome every problem together. You now need to worry about bills, house, cars, insurance, maybe kids, everything! And there is not more mo and dad to help, is only you two.
So, unless you two work together, fights will start. And still, there is always going to be a fight, because you two are now living together and it can not be avoided. And that is normal in any relation.
Just work it out, and always talk to each other. Communication is the key to a good relation no matter how much love there is. Love can fade away, but understanding not.
Good luck and congratulations.
2007-03-09 10:51:37 · answer #2 · answered by Dan D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things do change. Not always for the worse, sometimes for better. But marriage is a constantly changing state. You will argue, make-up, and go on. Family, home changes, general everyday life brings stress, and that stress enters your marriage...its ok. Just try to keep up good communication and don't hold on to any angry feelings. Don't feel as though everything has to be perfect always....thats expecting way too much.
Matter of fact best advice I ever heard...don't expect...expectations bring unhappiness.
2007-03-09 10:52:27 · answer #3 · answered by ste.phunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes married life is different that just liveing with a person,,, it a new set of rules,,, ,, in all married you going to have fight,,,, you learn as you go,,, you will come to depend on the other more,,,the biggest thing most fight over is the bills,
2007-03-10 09:22:35 · answer #4 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ppl like to talk based on what they think and what they see over time..it may be true yet it might be false..
you two are an unique individual who will strive to make your marriage a success..why bother about what ppl say..
2007-03-09 10:58:16 · answer #5 · answered by project_vk_03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't listen to everyone. listen to your heart and your spouse's. everyone has their own baggage lending to their opinions. try and seperate what they are saying and filter out the bias. then listen to what they have to say. you know what you feel. and what you are capable of.
2007-03-09 10:51:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRUE,it just keeps getting better and better.
2007-03-09 11:40:43 · answer #7 · answered by Goodfellar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋