Family & Relationships - 9 March 2007

Pls, i have a girlfriend that i love so much, initially when we started our relationship it was fun filling, our sexual life was something to write home about,she seems to want me every now and then, it got to a stage we cant do without each other,i must tell you,we were very much in love,but we have one problem, she takes in every now and then we make love,which has resulted to abortion thrice, and if i should insist on making use of the condom she will bluntly refuse it, telling me she does not like the usage of it, so ever since then, it has been one abortion and there about,so just recently i found out that she no longer enjoys making love to me.
I have to force her to do those things we use to do. At times when i succeeded making love to her she will be unhappy all true. And i dont like that. Pls i need your candid advice! What do i do? How do i bring back the fire in her? pls my relationship is fading out. What do i do?

2007-03-09 02:51:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I pay $550 a week in child support. I'm divorced and there is nothing in the agreement that says I have to pay half of day care or for birthday parties, etc.. Should I give my wife half of day care and anything else she wants that is not in the settlement agreement? She says, if I don't, she will take me back to court.

2007-03-09 02:51:13 · 40 answers · asked by Michael W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I have been together for about a year and a half. We have a baby together and now his mom has started telling me she loves me when I'm on the phone with her! I don't talk to her that much, and I don't know her that well. I really don't know what to say in response. Sometimes I'll say "Aw, thank you" but then I'm afraid that's rude, and if I do mutter out "Love you too" it sounds so fake and rude as well! I don't know what to do?! Any suggestions?

2007-03-09 02:51:09 · 17 answers · asked by LiL' Momma 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

So i have this little sister that lives in another city she is about 18 yrs old and is very addiced to Crack. I know that she is going to the full extent to get it and it is very hard to watch this. I wanted to take her in so she is surrounded by good people but she isnt ready to give it up or dosent know if she is ready. How do i help her?...is there any other way besides just letting her hit rock bottom...Please only serious answers...for a very serious problem.

Thanks

2007-03-09 02:50:41 · 4 answers · asked by babygurlot 1 in Family

for my boyfriend and i he's on top about 25% of the time and i'm on the top the other 75% of the time...i'm asking for this personal information because i want to know if this is "normal" or not. Thanks in advance for your answers!

2007-03-09 02:50:35 · 7 answers · asked by cantthinkofauseridsohereitis 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 02:49:53 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I m a girl,i have moved to such a place where i can get out of my house,cant hang out,these r the rules just for girls ,and i cant even go against these so called rules

2007-03-09 02:49:40 · 3 answers · asked by nOt InTEreStinG 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i was knew to a school last year and met a good friend we were very good mates,we used to hang around together tell eachother our secretes and had fun together but as time went by i met new friends and i sort of forgot about her my new mates did not like the idea of me talking to her but we were friends, i forgot all about her and made new friends and now she has a new friend they hang around together a lot for the past days i have realised how wrong i was when i left her i have been trying to make things alright betwwen us but it seems like it will never work she doesnt want us to be mates again.
Is It all my fault please help

2007-03-09 02:49:17 · 12 answers · asked by Bambie 3 in Friends

If you were me for a day.

2007-03-09 02:49:12 · 3 answers · asked by CROSS-EYED PENGUIN 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

what is one improvement people would bring to thier favorite films? This question only applies to their absolute fave best great film.

2007-03-09 02:49:09 · 3 answers · asked by lowroad 2 in Singles & Dating

i have 2 daughters aged 15 and 17 in england and i live in italy.. i've not seen them since august.. i'm back in the uk tomorrow and they don't know... how will they react?

2007-03-09 02:47:44 · 48 answers · asked by lion of judah 5 in Family

heres an e-z way to figure it out:

TJ: nice, gives me $ all the time, kinda annoying now that we go out, obsessed but only cuz he's happy i guess.

Kris: nice, koul, hot, my freind , i guess he likes me cuz he sent me a messagesaying YES SHE LIKES ME after i told him i liked him, want to make out w/ me, liked me last year.

which one do u think i should go out w/?

2007-03-09 02:47:19 · 16 answers · asked by jelly ♥s him 2 in Singles & Dating

i have just found out im pregnant. the baby could be black,do u think i should tell my white boyfriend, or should i tell him we have really distant relatives who are black?

2007-03-09 02:47:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-09 02:46:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 02:46:33 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 02:46:29 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I fell asleep last night at 9pm in my sweat pants and I like to use a body pillow cause I sleep better.

My girlfriend came to bed and woke me to make love etc.. at 11pm. She was highly irritated that I use a body pillow and had my clothes/pajammas on...
She says she likes to come to bed and her man should have no clothes on and the body pillow is not ok because she should be my body pillow..

Is this crazy? It is starting to I think damage the relationship, she is being incredibly immature for a 38 year old right?

Eventually she said a REALLY nasty comment that she would have sex with someone else cause I use a body pillow and had pajamas on..

I told her this morning her behaviour was UNACCEPTABLE.
She said ok... but I am now worried about this incredible immaturity..

Is it beyond unacceptable and time to move on?

I really tried.. but...

2007-03-09 02:45:42 · 17 answers · asked by DanjoHart 2 in Singles & Dating

I already have 16 kids (see my first question if you want to know the family story), ages 10 mo., and 6-19. with twins on the way. Her 2 kids are ages 2 and 3. personally, i don't know if me and my husband would be able to handle 20 kids. If i don't take them, they go in foster care. Help!!!!

2007-03-09 02:45:38 · 8 answers · asked by luv my kids nasty comm. unwanted 1 in Family

what scandalous Yahillbillies would people suggest are seated at the head table? Who to her immediate left and right? Seating plan experts ideas would be appreciated

any roasts people want to send in here will be read on the big night!

Roast away!

2007-03-09 02:45:01 · 5 answers · asked by lowroad 2 in Singles & Dating

a man thats loving, hard working, sweet, mature, but funny at the same time. will you stay with him, or will you want more.

2007-03-09 02:43:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive been with my boyfriend for a long time and i feel that if i was to talk about him to someone saying "my boyfriend" just doesnt seem to portray my real feeling and strength of our relationship. Boyfriend to me sounds more junior high-ish, a boyfriend could be someone you have been seeing for only a month or two. I guess im just venting.

We are not engaged yet, but will be soon, so saying "my boyfriend" just doesn't seem to portray the importance he holds in my life. Anyone else feel this way? Or am i the only one ?

2007-03-09 02:42:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 02:42:36 · 15 answers · asked by tgr_fsh 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a receptionist and at our firm we have a very annoying client who is in his seventies and is one of those dirty-old-man-flirts (I'm 20 by the way). Everytime he comes in, I let his broker know he's here and tell him to have a seat. He never sits. He just stands at my desk staring at me. After a while he'll talk. 1st offense: a dirty joke that I can't remember but was very uncalled for. 2nd :I told him I'd recently quit smoking and he said "oh, honey. If you smoke, I ain't gonna kiss ya!". I wrote it off as a harmless little old man. 3rd: came in Monday but his broker wasn't there. When I told him that, he once again just stood and stared. A few moments later he told me to leave his name/number. I asked his name and he told me I should know it by now. I finally got his name/number and he told me since I got his number, I should give him mine. I know he's just a harmless little old man but it made me uncomfortable. It's annoying, disguting, and uncalled for. Would you report it?

2007-03-09 02:42:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

name ur love ...........here is chance to send message to ur love if human otherwise anything.

2007-03-09 02:41:29 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want to tell a guy i like him but every time i do tell a guy, he hates me..... i need an easy way of telling him without losing my best friend

he is a guy that i tell everything to, literlly. everytime i have trouble with a guy, he helps, but now it is HIM i like. one time, i was scared to ask a guy to sadie and he actually volunteered to ask him for me

i need help, i need a way to say " i like you" without him heting me

2007-03-09 02:41:17 · 4 answers · asked by sarabeth t 2 in Singles & Dating

He works 5- 6days wkly. We've been married for almost two years. He sometimes hang out after work. he's to tired to have sex creatively. Theres no touching between us. I fill like I have to put a sign on me to say "hey I need sex!" We only have sex 2 times a month. He makes me fill like I have to make a apointment or he's tired of me explaining to him that I need some loven. I'm at the point where I'm looking to get a look from another man.

2007-03-09 02:41:13 · 22 answers · asked by 2cute 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband have not got a job in 4 years. he was setting at home sleeping all day. he would clean the house and cook dinner and watch are son and that is fine, but i needed him to work so i can paid bills. so i kick him out and i said to him that when he can get a job and help me he can come back. did i do the right thing?

2007-03-09 02:41:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-09 02:41:04 · 2 answers · asked by tregurl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

im 31 and have a high sexual drive my girl is 26 and hardly ever wants it then when i have to speak up and say something shell say no and for some reason it very humiliating to me and really puts me in a bad mood or depressess me we have 5 children and she hasnt had a problem being with other ppl as i have found out ive tried romantic cards enuendows gestures and basically make her day so all she has to do is sit and watch tv what the heck else can i do im scared its going to make me leave her but with the kids i find this overwhelmingly difficult not to mention i love her with all my heart any one have a clue or what

2007-03-09 02:40:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-09 02:40:35 · 1 answers · asked by DJ Wrigth 1 in Singles & Dating