i was knew to a school last year and met a good friend we were very good mates,we used to hang around together tell eachother our secretes and had fun together but as time went by i met new friends and i sort of forgot about her my new mates did not like the idea of me talking to her but we were friends, i forgot all about her and made new friends and now she has a new friend they hang around together a lot for the past days i have realised how wrong i was when i left her i have been trying to make things alright betwwen us but it seems like it will never work she doesnt want us to be mates again.
Is It all my fault please help
2007-03-09 02:49:17 · 12 answers · asked by Bambie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yes, it's all your fault. you were worried baout what other people thought of you instead of who YOU wanted to be friends with. I'm glad she moved on and found a REAL freind.
2007-03-09 02:52:57 · answer #1 · answered by no1bucsfan26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easy to get caught up in being accepted when you are the new kid. If you have regrets, you should tell your friend and ask for their forgiveness. Maybe you can set things right and start again, if that is your desire. Just make sure you decide who you want to be mates with, and don't let other people influence you.
2007-03-09 10:56:42 · answer #2 · answered by Moon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In away it is, and then again its not your fault, people move on and find new friends all the time, it is just apart of growing up. I do have to say though, just cause your other friends didn't like her doesn't mean that you can't be friends with her, your friends if thats what they really are should understand that she is your friend and get over.
2007-03-09 11:26:14 · answer #3 · answered by keyleeshay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eh...i just moved this year and the same type of crap happened.
in a way its your fault, but in a way its not.
as you made new friends, things probably got bussier...you had more people to catch up with. its hard to keep track of a lot of new people that you become friends with.
but your friend also shouldve tried to stay in contact with you better, knowing that you were getting more friends, and trying to keep up with more.
2007-03-09 10:54:12 · answer #4 · answered by teenagegraffiti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is kinda your fault because u kicked her to the side when u met new ones and if she ment anything 2 you,,u woulda not even had to 2nd guess keeping her as a friend,,an if your new friends couldnt exept who was there 1st then u shouldve let them go, not her..
2007-03-09 10:54:47 · answer #5 · answered by love2005wisdom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you made a mistake it happens keep trying to make it up to ur old friend The new ppl are probably not real friends anyway good luck
2007-03-09 10:54:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just hang in there and be patient, as people do change their minds every day. wait till she is finished with this boyfriend and make your moves. got to have some patience.
2007-03-09 10:53:42 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,you was wrong,but don't worry because yhis life is very long and by mistake only you can learn,so leave that matter and see you future and promise now to yourself that you will not do this mistake again......
i wishes you for your vivid future
2007-03-09 10:58:23 · answer #8 · answered by yogesh gulhania 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of coz you play a part of it to blame... Just give her a call and apolgise to her.... Tell her you are remoseful... Good Luck :)
2007-03-09 11:00:17 · answer #9 · answered by yuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is ur fault...
but it is not too late try to make it up again and everything will be fine....just don't do this fault again ok
2007-03-09 11:36:39 · answer #10 · answered by nasreen a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋