heres an e-z way to figure it out:
TJ: nice, gives me $ all the time, kinda annoying now that we go out, obsessed but only cuz he's happy i guess.
Kris: nice, koul, hot, my freind , i guess he likes me cuz he sent me a messagesaying YES SHE LIKES ME after i told him i liked him, want to make out w/ me, liked me last year.
which one do u think i should go out w/?
2007-03-09 02:47:19 · 16 answers · asked by jelly ♥s him 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not in the 3rd
2007-03-09 08:26:42 · update #1
You're gonna hurt your boyfriend either way - if you break up with him or if you stay with him and he realizes you like someone else. It would be better (and more honest) for you to just be up front and honest with your boyfriend now, make a clean break, and get with the new guy. Always be honest with yourself and those around you - it works out so much better that way.
2007-03-09 02:51:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question isn't even worth asking. You already ended your relationship with your bf when you started flirting with the other guy and told him that you liked him. If you had a bf or eventually a husband who did that you wouldn't be accepting of it would you? You need to go ahead a break up with your bf and stop wasting time. Don't worry about breaking his heart because the more that you play him behind his back the worse it will get. It's unfair to everyone involved when you go back and forth between the two guys.
2007-03-09 10:54:42 · answer #2 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not mature enough to go out with either. Especially when you say you don't really like your boyfriend TJ. Coming down to it, then why do you stay with him? Cos of the $, or he treats you nice or what? You say annoying - it's obvious to me this relationship is shortlived as you don't seem to like someone treat you too nice or fuss too much about you. Could be it because you now got the hots for this new guy Kris?
And this new guy Kris only wants to make out with you after finding out you like him cos you think he's hot & cool. After he's done, well, what do you think will happen? Well, as you don't seem to like anyone treat you too nicely or fuss too much, this should work out fine. But it's still gonna be shortlived.
I can only say good luck to you.
2007-03-09 10:59:02 · answer #3 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you questioned your reasons for having a boyfriend? They both seem to be in your life to get something out of you. #1 buys you things to keep you around #2 wants your body. Have you considered being involved with a boy who really likes you for who you are not for what he can get? Do you look at who these boys are as people and how they impact your life
2007-03-09 10:56:26 · answer #4 · answered by rcnut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess you have a hard discussion to make, I guess I would go with the guy I love the most. You're going to hurt one or the other, so you have to make the decision on who is going to treat you better, and who you would want to spend the next few years with...hopefully!
2007-03-09 10:52:54 · answer #5 · answered by Tommy's_Sweet_Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the other guy you'll take a rain check until you're sure you won't change your mind about your current boyfriend. You can't stay in a relationship you're not happy in. And it's not a relationship if you're thinking about another person. That's just insulting to you're boyfriend.
2007-03-09 10:52:13 · answer #6 · answered by hellopanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really understand you LOL. Why is TJ your boyfriend but you don't really love him? And you like TJ, and sounds like you really like him more than your 'boyfriend'. You're gonna break TJ's heart even if you say you don't want to. What if he finds out that you don't really like him to other people? Like, of course, he's gonna feel bad about it and is going to be brokenhearted [if he really loves you]. But.. Whatever. Just go for Kris.
2007-03-09 10:58:00 · answer #7 · answered by Faye ^___^ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont like him you are going to break his heart sooner or later. Do it now before it goes no to long. It is never fair and it will happen to you one day and you will not like it either but it is a part of life.
2007-03-09 10:51:15 · answer #8 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TJ if you like money and obsessed ppl
Kris if you like guys that are totally hot and cute
Personally, I would go for Kris if I were you.
2007-03-09 10:51:07 · answer #9 · answered by marshimaro1993 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't like your bf but you don't want to break his heart. you like this guy kris and you think he likes you. easy is for you b/c i think that you go with TJ b/c you feel safe. go for kris and then tell us this is an easy question to answer. not many people get a chance like you. break up with TJ and go out with Kris. you just have to follow your gut.
2007-03-09 10:54:50 · answer #10 · answered by i_love_rain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋