I fell asleep last night at 9pm in my sweat pants and I like to use a body pillow cause I sleep better.
My girlfriend came to bed and woke me to make love etc.. at 11pm. She was highly irritated that I use a body pillow and had my clothes/pajammas on...
She says she likes to come to bed and her man should have no clothes on and the body pillow is not ok because she should be my body pillow..
Is this crazy? It is starting to I think damage the relationship, she is being incredibly immature for a 38 year old right?
Eventually she said a REALLY nasty comment that she would have sex with someone else cause I use a body pillow and had pajamas on..
I told her this morning her behaviour was UNACCEPTABLE.
She said ok... but I am now worried about this incredible immaturity..
Is it beyond unacceptable and time to move on?
I really tried.. but...
2007-03-09 02:45:42 · 17 answers · asked by DanjoHart 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That sounds a little crazy, but its hard to judge an entire relationship from one event. If the good out weighs the bad, then consider sticking around, if not hit the road.
2007-03-09 02:49:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good grief! Yes, she's immature at her age. Good for you that you called her bluff and told her she was acting inappropriate. Here's the thing: If she's going to sleep with someone else, let her. She sounds to immature to be in a relationship and the fact that she gets mad that you sleep in sweats and have a body pillow is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard of. I sleep in a huge tshirt from Wal Mart; my bf could care less; more like "whatever's more comfortable". I would actually move on if I were you; good luck and keep me posted!!!
2007-03-09 02:52:33 · answer #2 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well well
first of all, i agree about the body pillow
she should be the one
second of all naked in the bad,,.. i don't know, i think she is wrong, doesn't need to be... she can do the job off taking them off...
but let me tell you, if this is happening a lot... that you come home and fall asleep, show no interest in her what so ever, i can understand her.
her reactions seams like there is way more to it than just this one time event.
womens don't react like this for nothing, we flip out because things are bugging us for a while already.
so maybe she said this to you to make you move and get the fire back in the bed...
i think she is missing something that she used to have with you and that got lost in the time of age....
think about it
no women like to be left alone
we want to touched and loved
feel adored and all those things.....
i don't think she wants to have sex with any body else
but she wants to make you be a hot lover (again)
good luck
2007-03-09 02:59:07 · answer #3 · answered by 237kk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let her go. If she acting that crazy now, just think if you get married or have kids, and she does not get her way, she may walk out for someone else.
But if you LOVE her and you are IN LOVE with her, talk to her and try to work it out. Write her a letter about this ONE issues (Do not drag other issues into it, that will just cause more drama) Tell her how that comment hurt you, and it can cause trust issues. Tell her also you need your rest, also tell her that you want to be intimate with her.
2007-03-09 03:12:41 · answer #4 · answered by questions 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, How old are you?? Get rid of the body pillow. I would think it was a little weird if my man was sleeping with a body pillow. I agree she should be your body pillow. If she wants to sleep with someone else then tell her "See Ya"!!
2007-03-09 02:51:50 · answer #5 · answered by jtaylor1993 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's very immature of her to say she'd sleep with someone else....it just shows how much she cares about your feelings.....which is none at all! You sure she already isnt sleeping with someone, and she's using this as an excuse? I would sit and talk to her, and tell her how unhappy that comment made you because no one needs to be threatened like that...
2007-03-09 02:53:36 · answer #6 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probally wouldn't sleep with some one else she just said that cause she was in the mood for sex and when she saw you sitting like that it got her upset, i mean would you perfer to see a girl with no clothes on in bed or with long sleeve shirt and pants?
She was just horny for the moment, got turned off, she must of been really excited and people say things like that wen they are angry and in the mood.
She most likely still loves you just want to see the best of you.
2007-03-09 03:02:26 · answer #7 · answered by anotherguy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is not your type. She doesn't "understand" you. And if she actually told you that she was going to sleep with someone else, you don't need her. I am sorry you are in a relationship like that.
2007-03-09 02:54:58 · answer #8 · answered by besitos2610 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds very immature and controlling. I bet she even has borderline personality disorder. tell her that if she wants to sleep with another man, that it's fine with you, so long as she has removed herself along with her toothbrush from your place.
i'd even go so far as to tell "Don't let the door hit ya where the good Lord Split ya"
2007-03-09 03:08:57 · answer #9 · answered by Meiko420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha ha you really are over the hill. give me her mobile number and you can have the body pillow..thanx
2007-03-09 02:53:38 · answer #10 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋