i have just found out im pregnant. the baby could be black,do u think i should tell my white boyfriend, or should i tell him we have really distant relatives who are black?
2007-03-09 02:47:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Fiona is that you??
2007-03-09 02:52:51 · answer #1 · answered by david w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should probably just tell him the truth. Even if he does go for the "distant relative" thing , its likely that his family and friends wont. He'll get a lot of crap from them about being dumb enough to believe this brown baby is his and will probably eventually ask for a DNA test.
2007-03-09 03:00:04 · answer #2 · answered by ruff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just apply for one of those show's, "Jerry Springer" or "Anyone One" of them and ask them if you can have a DNA done, with all the father's on there, and everything, and I do believe they pay you for it, and fly you out there, with motel stay & all.. for being on there show's, than this way you'll know, and you can rest easy, and not feel like your child will be "Fatherless" all of his/her life, you know.. Otherwise, you do need to tell him, just out of respect, for him.. and too get things off of your shoulder's, you know.. Plus, he'll eventually wonder why the baby doesn't look anything like him, or maybe it will, but you should let him know, even if it's through a tv program, but I feel you should do it, before the show.. Just to be a little more dignified about it, then most of those people on those show's are.. And then all of you will get paid, and everyone can relax, and go on with their lives, best way they know how, especially you!!! Good Luck to you, hun!! Smile!!!
2007-03-09 02:57:04 · answer #3 · answered by Hmg♥Brd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A POEM FOR DAVID W
My Missus
I never believed what people said
That me missus liked other blokes in her bed
So I'll tell you my story,
Each word it is true
Just in case it should happen to you
Came home from work
Early one night
Walked into my house
And had quite a fright
My missus was chained
From her toes to her head!
She saw me and fainted -
When recovered she said......
"Oh David, you gave me a terrible shock -
I was trying my lovely new chain-mail frock!!"
I chose to believe when I looked in her eyes
Just couldn't conceive that she'd ever tell lies
Then later that week
On returning from darts
I noticed my wife had the terrible farts
I asked her "Pour quoi?"
She replied as such -
"The eggs, they were off
And I ate far too much!!"
I thought nothing of it,
Settled down for a nap,
But was aroused from my slumber
By our squeaky cat-flap
I thought this quite odd
As our cat was long dead
Then through sleepy-hazed eyes
I could see this blokes head!
I jumped from my chair
And I pointed with blame
"This man is your lover,
Now tell me his name!"
She tried to stay calm
But her voiced dripped with fear
And she feebly offered.......
"It's the milkman my dear!"
I should have paid heed
To the words people said
Indeed it did seem
That she liked 'giving head'!
I confronted her thus,
In response she did say,
"But to you I can't do it -
I think that you're gay!"
I took a deep breath
Told her "Don't hit the roof,
But it seems now's the time
For the sharing of truth.........
Don't take it too hard,
But the truth of all this
Is the 'Mr' you married
Was at one time a 'Miss'!!"
2007-03-09 04:08:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to come clean because bringing a child into this world is not a game or a joke! the child will eventually grow up and quite possibly want to know the truth about his father and the rest of his biological family there are many consequences to keeping such a lie going your child could even grow up and marry his brother or her sister because he or she did not know the truth and after this one STOP SLEEPING AROUND USE PROTECTION AND TRY NOT TO HAVE SEX WITH TOO MANY GUYS AROUND THE SAME TIME PERIOD. THANX its ok to not have sex for a while and how do you even know that either one will be a good father? are any of the relationships serious? is marriage in your future? get a grip
2007-03-09 02:58:38 · answer #5 · answered by miss-ee 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
well theres no way that he will believe that u have distant black relations just have the baby make sure he aint there for the birth if its white you are sorted if its black u have to break the news to him n explain everthing
2007-03-09 02:52:39 · answer #6 · answered by nicoley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not-I repeat-DO NOT-lie to your boyfriend about this. You've cheated on him-that's bad enough. But so that the baby will know it's true genetic lineage and therefore any genetic health conditions there might be,you need to be honest about this.
2007-03-09 03:18:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say nothing darling cross that bridge when you come to it its just a observation but you must,nt have much thought for your current boyfriend because by the sound of it you enjoying shall we say playing the field ie you say you dont no who the father is anyway hope it all works out darling
2007-03-09 03:30:16 · answer #8 · answered by dream theatre 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be honest from the beginning. If you start out with a lie, DNA testing will prove you lied about the paternity in a heartbeat.
2007-03-09 02:56:33 · answer #9 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
advance up provide up having unprotected intercourse and study some self appreciate!!! bored stiff of listening to approximately those that dont no who the father of their new child is. what's that this worldwide coming to!!! provide up taking off your legs
2016-12-14 14:44:44 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you better tell him the truth...and then in the future...don't cheat. Is the stress worth it?
2007-03-09 02:51:45 · answer #11 · answered by mikey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋