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He works 5- 6days wkly. We've been married for almost two years. He sometimes hang out after work. he's to tired to have sex creatively. Theres no touching between us. I fill like I have to put a sign on me to say "hey I need sex!" We only have sex 2 times a month. He makes me fill like I have to make a apointment or he's tired of me explaining to him that I need some loven. I'm at the point where I'm looking to get a look from another man.

2007-03-09 02:41:13 · 22 answers · asked by 2cute 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

22 answers

No matter how much work I have I can never have enough of my wife.So there is big problem here, he is not satisfying you and I'm sure you are a very attractive woman so it is his problem not yours.

What should you do, tell him exactly how you feel, may be he feels he is not good enough for you. If he truly care about you he would do anything to make you happy. At least going down on you when he doesnt want to go all out. There are some many ways he can help with this.

Don't get another man just for this, Masturbation is a beautiful thing. But if you dont see any results anytime soon, ask yourself is it worth being in a relationship like this?

2007-03-09 03:28:23 · answer #1 · answered by Kevo 2 · 0 0

He probably isn't cheating but honestly, do you really think he's going to tell you if he is?!

I don't buy into the story that he's too tired for you, despite the fact that he works up to 6 days a week. He seems to have enough energy to hang out somedays after work so, something is wrong with this picture.

Do you know any of the people he works with? Are any of them women?

Communication is the key to making this work and I just don't mean verbally.

When he comes home...dress up nice and sexy for him sometimes and see if you can't entice him that way. If he's still not interested, then you might need to consider counselling....having an affair will just make matters worse.

Here's a site that might help you out....

2007-03-09 10:59:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

OK from the male side
You got problems, I have been married for almost 29 years and if I don't git it at least 1 or 2 times a week I'm not a happy camper. I work shifts and 12 hours a day, sometimes two weeks at a time.
So maybe their are some other issues that Hubie is not talking about.
This must really being killing you.So young and time that will be gone forever.

2007-03-09 11:02:01 · answer #3 · answered by ULTRA150 5 · 1 0

Well I work 12 days straight and have 4 days off and I work from 8 to 5 and when I get home eat supper and go out looking . I am ready for sex everyday. Maybe he doesn't want to have sex because he is cheating I don't know. But the only way to find out is to follow him or have someone follow him around for a week see what he does and goes. SO if you want to chat more just IM me anytime. Maybe we can find out what's going on

2007-03-09 10:48:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Okay here is what you do! Go to a video/media store (Best Buy, etc.) and buy the Carmen Electra Stripperobics DVD collection and learn the moves. Or get a pole dancing DVD and a pole and learn how to pole dance. Both of these are great, fun workouts that will get and keep your body in shape. And one of the best things about it is that it doesn't even feel like a workout! It is so much fun! And you feel so good about yourself, so sexy!!!!!!!!! And the other great thing about it is, you husband will LOVE IT!!!!!!!!!!! He won't think twice about being tired when he comes home. He won't even want to go out after work when he know he has his on personal stripper waiting at home for him!!!!!!! It works like a charm!! I promise it is fun! I recommend it to anyone! And once you get started you will be hooked!!!!!!!!!!! Don't nag him about wanting to go out and do something after a hard days work. He won't want to come home if he knows that is what he's coming back to. Instead give him a reason to want to come home! That will be much more effective!!!!!!!!!!!! (Think like a man to solve a problem like this.)

2007-03-09 10:54:13 · answer #5 · answered by Snow 6 · 3 0

Well it all depends was he a highly sexed person before you two married? If so then maybe he is getting it elsewhere. Do you try to dress sexy for him and do special things for him? Do you compliment him and make him feel good about himself? Sometimes you have to build up his ego and make him think he is the sexiest man on earth. If he still refuses sex then he must be getting it elsewhere unless he just has a low sex drive. No do not cheat ask him to go to marriage counceling. If your still not happy then file for divorce do not cheat!!!

2007-03-09 10:51:40 · answer #6 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 1 0

Sounds like he has lost interest in you, or he needs to see a doctor. I have never seen a man to tired for sex, even if he had it at work by the time he got home he should be able to again.

2007-03-09 10:50:25 · answer #7 · answered by James B 5 · 0 0

Send him to the doctor, have them check him for male menopause. If his testosterone levels are good id be asking questions, Like your not getting it here, where are ya getting it. Could be a medical thing though, have that checked out before you do anything to destroy your marriage. I think the actually term for it is andropause in men. Not sure of the spelling but check out the link below.

2007-03-09 13:25:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

How can you blame the guy? He works too much, why? Can't you take up some of the slack and let him work less? The man is not a machine and he probably is exhusted. Where do you think he has time to cheat? Now you plan on looking elsewhere, why is busting his chops supporting you? All these questions are something you should try to answer before you start cheating. Shame on you....

2007-03-09 10:51:31 · answer #9 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1 2

You need to correct this situation or your marriage will be over. Tell him he needs to step up to the plate and work harder to make you happy. No one should have to put up with this if they dont want to. Twice a month would kill me. They would find me out on the freeway with a high powered rifle picking off motorists.

2007-03-09 10:46:05 · answer #10 · answered by Devdude 5 · 1 0

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