i want to tell a guy i like him but every time i do tell a guy, he hates me..... i need an easy way of telling him without losing my best friend
he is a guy that i tell everything to, literlly. everytime i have trouble with a guy, he helps, but now it is HIM i like. one time, i was scared to ask a guy to sadie and he actually volunteered to ask him for me
i need help, i need a way to say " i like you" without him heting me
2007-03-09 02:41:17 · 4 answers · asked by sarabeth t 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him that you like him through a note. and have him to write you back. And down at the bottom of the note i would put p.s. i still want to be your friend.
2007-03-09 03:10:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might already suspect that you like him and if he hasn't reacted, then he's probably not open to taking things further. I wouldn't scare him off by declaring that you are interested in him romantically. The next time he does something kind for you, you could sweetly tell him that that's exactly why you like him so much. Wait for his reaction but don't push or you might push him away for good. You must also ask yourself these questions: Why did the other guys "hate" you? Are you acting pushy or obnoxious? Do you frequently throw yourself at guys and make yourself seem flighty and easy? Do you smother guys and make them want to escape from you? Guys need space too so be careful. Most guys don't feel comfortable around girls who seem desperate. You should also consider all the secrets you've told this guy. He might use them against you when assessing whether he should be with you. Was there anything that might make him have doubts about you? Keep him as your friend and give it time. Just be thankful that you have him for a friend now and wait to see what the future holds..
2007-03-09 02:59:32 · answer #2 · answered by bombastic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will say only two things.
First do you really want to put in danger your friendship??? Sometime it happens that good friends at a point start having a different kind of relationship and they realise it doesent work well. And what is the end? You lose your boyfriend and your friend... The latest hurts more.
And second...if you decide you want to try something more serious, you dont have to SAY. SHOWING is even better. You have to show out your feelings and than he will realise that there might be something else. And than he probably will ask you what is with your behaviour, and than tell him about your feelings.
Wish you the best.
2007-03-09 02:52:08 · answer #3 · answered by angyalka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He won't hate u. If he's tat kind of friend he won't. If he gets mad theres no reason so dont feel upset.
2007-03-09 02:46:40 · answer #4 · answered by JoJo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋