this is deffinatly off subject but why is it, that everyone comments about some guy wanting to get between your legs or they say to bring condoms....thats ****** sick and im only 14 and i aint ever gonna do it with a guy!!!!!
2007-03-09 02:17:37 · 29 answers · asked by gerri s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Atta' girl! You're so right, like it's gonna' leave the planet if you wait . . . LOL
Have a star.
2007-03-09 02:21:17 · answer #1 · answered by Zeera 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I would like to say, thats great that you won't do that.
However, you need to watch what u say on here cause language can get your stuff deleted watch the "f" words say F***N instead people know what you mean.
Second, many girls (sad to say) they think the ONLY way to get a man is to sleep with them. But in reallity, it is the last way to get a man. Sex and relationships are two diffent things to guys. A man litterlly has two head. One for fun the other for relationships.
A woman makes love to a man and it brings her closer to him, but don't do the same thing for a guy. It is just sex to him. When guys grow up to be "men" this does change but it takes time.
From about the age of 14 until 25 "most" NOT ALL guys are with a girl for sex only. It isn't unitl they mature to be able to understand the sex is more than that and that is when it becomes love. That is also why there are more than just one category.
There is: Sex, F**n and making love
Sex is just that sex (maybe with a friend or someone you care somewhat for)
F**n is no feelings
making love (a true relationship with two people who care for or love eachother)
When you are ready to be with a man (hopefully years from now) you will take it upon yourself to bring protection (just in case) its always better to be safe than sorry.
But I tell this too all.. when you want to be intimate be sure you are emotionally ready. Sometimes, after you are with a man sexually, he is done with you and it hurts. Make sure you know what your getting into and ALL the consequences.
:) stay young....you have your whole life to be old.
2007-03-09 02:29:15 · answer #2 · answered by 2shay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is good you will not do it, let think if you have sex when you too young your life will end up with sadness, and you have no chance for give your life a good things if you are pregnant early. i am older more than you i know what is what, and i know what men want fron the young ladies, after that you will get kick off from his life, listen young lady i tried to be nice to you, i am much older than you and i am studying as well, the students who is studying especially teenager you will not find the real love, because you are too young and you are school girl. but i didn't mean you can not love each other. i never have borfriend, because i don't want to put my life down with the men, i am worried i gonna be hurt. that is why i am choosing this way to carry on doing what i am doing and try to give best to my life, and creating my future after that later i will find some1 who really love me understand me and always stand by me.
if you do like this in later of your life will be very peaceful
i am not too olde fashion, that i don't have boyfriend
young people have more to learn
who is head strong will learn by done mistake and sadness by themselves but who is listen they don't have to be hurt, and they wil easily to understand
2007-03-09 02:44:13 · answer #3 · answered by 2Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This all comes down to immaturity when it comes to teenager guys. Yes many will only think or focus on one thing when it comes to girls. The best advice I can give is, stay away from this type and find good guys who respect the opposite sex. There are guys who will care about you as a person and it will have nothing to do with having sex. Your only fourteen so surround yourself with honest good respectful guy friends. Hope this helps. Cocoa
2007-03-09 02:26:15 · answer #4 · answered by cocoa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say that now. But as your body and mind matures I'm sure that won't be the case. Let's admit it. People are not all the same. There are always people insensitive to the sensiblities of others. That's how the world goes. Don't let it get to you or affect how you'll be when you grow up.
2007-03-09 02:27:11 · answer #5 · answered by Christopher M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are sick and being very childish. Most teenagers these days think that if they are having sex that they will be more accepted by their peers, who are also sexually active. But, when motherhood comes along they start to see the harsh reallity of their actions. You're a very smart girl for waiting! I commend you for that. I am 42 yrs. old, and I wish that I had known then, what i know now!!!!!!!!!!! Good luck to you and You go girl!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-09 02:25:10 · answer #6 · answered by kathy l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got news for you sweetie, for you to be only 14, you shouldn't be using profane language like that. And you think that you wouldn't want to have sex with someone, you are thinking wrong...unless, you prefer females instead? Look, the only thing you need to be worried about is getting the "A "on that test that you took. School, and extracurricular activities for yo u, not sex and boys!
2007-03-09 02:36:29 · answer #7 · answered by N0+ 3@$!Ly &R0]{3n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People joke about things that make them nervous & uncomfortable- you are at the age when parents, & other adults start to worry about if you're gonna be irresponsible sexually, for example, having sex way too young, being a pregnant teenager high school drop out, etc.
Maybe their talking about it to you is to monitor your reactions as reassurance to themselves that you won't make foolish mistakes
2007-03-09 02:36:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 14 is too young, and if the language bothers you , then you shouldnt be around this web site.. and if you"aint never gonna do it with a guy" you will grow old and sad and still alone.. so wait till you are 21 b4 you think of that nasty "stuff"
2007-03-09 02:27:39 · answer #9 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm glad you feel this way at 14. I'm tired of seeing 14 and 15 yr olds pregnant or talking about how they love sex. Keep that attitude and watch your mouth, the "F" word it bad!
2007-03-09 02:29:03 · answer #10 · answered by Cocoa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋