OK, so we broke up last year in October. He has a new girlfriend, and I have a new boyfriend. So everytime he sees me in the hall, he either calls me a *****, a sl*t, or who*e, calls my boyfriend gay, f*g, and jacka*s.
My question is..since we broke up such a long time ago shouldn't he be over it by now? Why do you think he is behaving this way?
2007-03-09 02:19:56 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do not know the details of your break up but it sounds like he feels like he got the raw end of the deal. It does not matter if he did or not. Some people just can not let go because they feel like they lost.
2007-03-09 02:27:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't a such thing as normal behavior when dealing with guys (especially ex's) Mayb he still has feelings 4 u even though he has a g-friend it could b his way of making u think he is over u
2007-03-09 02:29:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've found that most of the time they act in this way because either they still harbor deep feelings for you and it hurts them to see you with someone else or they are around their friends and they are trying to look like "the big man on campus". So, either he still cares for you or he's just showing off. And by you not showing him any attention at all, it really irritates him because he realizes that your feelings for him have truly changed and you've moved on, which is something he can not do.
2007-03-09 02:30:48 · answer #3 · answered by kathy l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loves you, or is infatuated with you, or hsi ego can't take getting dumped.
The way he's feeling is normal for some. I personally take a long time to get over someone. The way he's acting though is not normal. It's very childish and he needs a good slap.
2007-03-09 02:24:25 · answer #4 · answered by stn1225 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably more common than you think. Whatever the situation of the break up, he had his ego hurt, and so he thinks he has to call you names to make his ego feel better. It's really because he can't think of a more mature way to deal with his own issue. You've just got to let it roll off your back, and let him know it doesn't bother you in the least.
2007-03-09 02:28:38 · answer #5 · answered by Moon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Evidently it wasn't a mutual congenial breakup. You were either the instigator of the break up or did something that caused the two of you to break up. He is still hurt over the break up and wants to strike back at you.
Your best bet is just to ignore him, smile and go on about your business. He will soon slack off and go on about his.
2007-03-09 02:28:40 · answer #6 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys have a hard time ever letting go. I'd say its a good thing you have gone your separate ways. I hope you can deal with his exhibition of immaturity. More time is needed here but it does heal. Hang in there.
2007-03-09 02:29:28 · answer #7 · answered by Ray2play 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it somewhat is not generic. the guy is a administration freak according to risk. rfile him to the police, get a restraining order, and be careful. men like this have been primary to reason extreme harm to their ex, as they sense some diminished as a guy. try this now.
2016-10-17 23:02:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately he's immature and says things like that to make himself look good and you look bad. Yes, you've both moved on and are with different people now, but some guys are like that, women can be too.
2007-03-09 02:23:29 · answer #9 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aparently, he still harbors resentment over the breakup OR maybe someone told him something that you may or may not have said and he's angry about it. Who knows, but you did something to anger him. How did you break up? Was it a bad one?
2007-03-09 02:23:43 · answer #10 · answered by Groovy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋