I want to be a new person?

Question

i wanna change my look. i want to be labaled something. what should i be? what are you?

i'm 18 and i juz wanna change my look again lol

Answer 1

first and foremost, it's OK to be you.

if you want to get a lift, get a new hairdo, maybe new make up tricks, and/or a new outfit?

rearrange your room.. get rid of things you don't use anymore... freshen up your environment.

make a list of things you'd like to improve about yourself, and work on them one thing at the time.

Answer 2

lol, I could help you be labeled a slu.t, the opinion varies on what I am, it really depends on who you ask. just be yourself and not a poser and you will be labeled an original. don't worry about being a new person, life will change you soon enough anyways. you only see what you want to, not who you really are, you see what you focus on. and you can't really change your ego like turning a page. your ego is what you created over the span of your life, everything you have done has resulted in who you are and think you are. it will take as much time to undo what you have created. if you start doing one thing different today, like say bite your tongue when you want to insult someone. you will be on the path to changing who you are.ego is an accumulation of everything you have done your entire life. you don't just start posing one day and become a new person. that is very fatiguing and will drain all your energy. if you do one thing when you want to do another will change you also. lets say you see a movie and it makes you wanna cry and you hold back and don't cry because you don't want to be thought whimpy. if you go ahead and cry and do what your instincts tell you, you will change who you are. and you will like yourself more and not see the need for change. why fix what isn't broken. accept yourself and quit comparing yourself to other people, you are unique. there is only one soul like you on this earth. like the saying about being someones everything. take the skankiest mother you can think of or the nastiest dad you know and think about the people who love them and if you take them out of this world, there is someone who will feel that loss. you won't, I won't but someone will, their whole world will change. there are people that love you just the way you are.

Answer 3

You can only change what you are, but not who you are...

You can change the color of your hair, and the way you wear your clothes, and the way you walk, but never who you are.

The labels you see on TV, or in a magazine, those are just labels, when you take off the clothes, most likely you see despair and emptiness. Really I don't think those people are really happy.

I think you should be someone who wears an evening gown with tennis shoes...because its comfortable!

Answer 4

I felt that way to. So, I went out on a little self discovery, and realized that I am a "hippie-chic"!!!!! i just loved the look and feel of it and it truly boosted my moral!! That's what you need to do! Just go your own little self discovery and you'll find your own groove, without giving up who you really are! I'm happier than ever before cause I finally know more about me!!!!!!!!!

Answer 5

Be real. Wear, change and stylize or whatever the things you want to but don't be too exaggerated. Cause you probably know what would be the result. :)

Answer 6

if you want to radiate,then the trick is to be true to yourself. What ever you do, do it for you and you only. It will make you immensely happy and confident and you won't be able to not exude those feelings.

Answer 7

I'm a born again child of God. You should try that label on!

Answer 8

just b u adn wear wat u like adn don't try 2 b somone else im ten adn yea its hard adn im ok if u don't take well u don't listen tome but i now this stuff trust me.

Answer 9

how old are u??? going through an identity chrisis are we?