The other night I was sick, so yesterday he drove an hour and a half, got off work early and came down and cooked dinner for me. He also brought a movie to watch. When we were together before, we never had the "define the relationship" talk...just not his way. But do y'all think we are kinda back together?
2007-03-09 03:00:30 · 16 answers · asked by :-) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not yet. But could end up that way
2007-03-09 03:03:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
A few things might be at work here. Obviously if you were together once you had affection for each other. Once the hurt of the break up is over the affection is often still there. That doesn't mean you are good for each other but it doesn't mean you are not either.
Other factors:
We often want what we don't have.
Once we are sure of someone, the kind and thoughtful acts can go to the way side. After all we already won them over. Since you have not been won the kind acts are back.
Maybe you both are lonely and missing the intamacy.
or Maybe you still love each other have learned a lesson and will remember to treasure each other, communicate and work thing out this time?
Or maybe none of the above.
I'd go slow.
2007-03-09 03:11:55 · answer #2 · answered by Karrose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never suggested how long he's been your ex? the main suitable advise i can provide you is refer to him & to take it sometime at a time, and undergo in concepts the main suitable advice ever given to me approximately ex's, as quickly as your relationship will become actual you could never pass lower back to in basic terms preserving palms, take it sluggish & do no longer confuse intercourse for intimacy, be sure it is your concepts, your character and your self nicely worth that he needs, no longer in basic terms intercourse, in a relationship you in basic terms spend approximately 20% of time in mattress, for the different eighty% you could have the potential to talk, god i'm happy i'm married & far off from the drama of broken relationships, stable success, i'm hoping you get what you pick and pick out of being with him, take care, Yvette
2016-11-23 17:17:27 · answer #3 · answered by goettle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That could go one of two ways: one hand I would say yes you are back together but on the other hand he might be trying to be a good friend with benefits.
2007-03-09 03:04:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it. When I get all Florence Nightingale on someone, than yeah...I'm trying to get back in their good graces.
See how the chemistry flows...and if you notice sparks, go with it and enjoy it. If this is what you want.
You can have the serious talk later....don't rush if this is what you want.
Hope it works out!
2007-03-09 03:05:01 · answer #5 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds to me like your on the road to getting back together. And in a very good way I might add.
2007-03-09 03:06:10 · answer #6 · answered by shorty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask, there is nothing wrong with finding out where you stand with someone. there are plenty of ways of doing it, by just asking were do we stand, are we going to start seeing each other and no-one else. It is that simple that way you know your boundary.
2007-03-09 03:05:18 · answer #7 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be careful. I used to sleep with my ex, and some women feel you're obligated to do what ever comes to their mind if she's letting you hit it. Don't get suckered into anything. KEEP YOUR EYES OPEN SON
2007-03-09 03:04:15 · answer #8 · answered by Mike K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, keep it this way...Relationship does not mean Marriage but sharing and having fun together.
2007-03-09 03:04:46 · answer #9 · answered by Casper A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say your on your way, but maybe not totally back together
2007-03-09 03:03:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋