i work way too much (45-50 hrs/week) while trying to go to school fulltime, find time to do homework, see my family and friends, boyfriend, personal time, etc!!! i'm going nuts to the point i feel like my immune system is shot.
to top it off, i dont even like where i live!!! PA outside philadelphia business are is not cool in my eyes. i love warm weather, beaches and the SUN above all.
i do love the snow but the longgg winters where there is barely anyyy sun really affects me :-(
i feel trapped and unhappy. its hard though bc family, friends and boyfriend are here. move to paradise by myself? all i know is im miserable and this MUST change asap! please help.
2007-03-09 02:56:00 · 2 answers · asked by Mg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes, we need to think about other people. About what's going to happen or how would they feel if we make this decision and stuff. It's not right to think about what would only be our benefits when we decide to do something. But talk to them. If they agree, then that's good. If not, then try to think of what I've said. :)
2007-03-09 03:10:11 · answer #1 · answered by Faye ^___^ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is exactly how I felt when I was going to college and I just wanted to quit. I didn't.And I am sooooooooooooo glad now.A friend of mine once told me that going to college is not about how smart you are it is about how tenacious you are. Learn meditation it works to decrease stress and plan a little something every day just for yourself even if it is just reading something other than a school book and decrease some of the stuff you don't absolutley have to do and get your boy friend to help you to relax by giving you a massage or maybe oral lovin and not expect you to return the favor. The bottom line is this GET YOUR EDUCATION NO MATTER HOW YOU HAVE TO GET THROUGH THIS.You will look back on this and be so glad you didn't bail. peace
2007-03-09 12:12:27 · answer #2 · answered by frogenstien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋