2007-03-09 02:57:09 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ducktape abridge git drunk jump off it and just forget it yo homie cause they dont like u no ways
2007-03-09 02:59:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I am sorry for your broken heart. You know, the old saying "time heals all pain" well it is a load of crock. It is what you do in that time that heals. Take this time to get to know yourself again especially if this was a long relationship. Don't sit around waiting for him/her to call, go out with friends, family, do some things that you have not had a chance to do in a while. Read, go to the movies. Write in a journal. Try not to dwell on this though. It is done now you move on. I know it is hard and very unsettling. It does get better though. Always remember that God gives you nothing that you cannot handle. Do not be mean to the other party, though. You may want to stay friends with the other person but you need to allow yourself sometime before that. Good luck!!
2007-03-09 03:06:19 · answer #2 · answered by Aron H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A broken heart never heals
2007-03-09 03:24:26 · answer #3 · answered by Emil M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people find it best to get distracted from the problem (like working for workaholics, or going on vacation to get their mind off things). Some people cope best when they are being attended to by friends. Some people like to be alone.
All require time.
If it is you who needs healing, try to schedule some "me" time. Grieve on the event of the break-up if you must, but don't dwell on it, or you might be digging your own grave. Don't forget. While it may seem attractive to do so, the person you were with has been a part of your life, and, for better or for worse, needs remembering so that it does not happen again, and so that you will know what to look for in your next relationship.
If it is a friend who needs healing, try to ascertain which strategy is best, depending on the personality of your friend. Do not force a solution on him or her - your friend will have to "get over it" with his own power. If you are concerned, and are willing to be a bit of a sounding board for your friend, then do so, but make sure that your friend is willing to pour out his/her heart. Lend your ear if your friend needs it, but don't intervene or be like a hovering parent. Try to let your friend cope with the problem him/herself, so that she/he doesn't end up depending on outside help. Above all, ensure that the person affected doesn't become dependent on any substance or addiction - whether it be food, drink, alcohol, drugs, or danger.
And no, it's not about the stigma about some or all of these things, but it's more of a matter of coping with oneself. To be genuinely free from the grief caused by a broken heart, it really should be the person who should learn to rise again from the ashes.
2007-03-09 03:11:58 · answer #4 · answered by JG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key for a healing is definitely: love yourself! For only then you will become strong enough to cope a broken heart.
Besides: a broken heart can be a good thing. You will get stronger and more importantly, you will get to know yourself.
Don't give up. You can do it. And one day you will be proud for surviving this existential experience.
All the best.
2007-03-12 05:20:14 · answer #5 · answered by love_eexpert 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals wounds. Even broken hearts. So, just relax and wait. See what's going to happen.
2007-03-09 03:01:24 · answer #6 · answered by Faye ^___^ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to stand up for yourself......
You are better than that and there is better than him/her, depending on your age, you need to start doing stuff. Start going to the gym, get yourself in shape, to feel gorgeous/handsome. Go on a shopping spree, even if it's just for a few new outfit.....go tanning a couple of times, get haircut, nails done if it applies. Just refresh yourself into a new person, get ready for that next date. Love is not around the corner...you will not spend your life with the first guy/girl you fall in love with. You just need to get over it and get out there! Sometimes it might be difficult but it won't heal anything to just stay at home and look at those old pictures, or letters, or dried flowers hangin' on the wall. Get rid of all this stuff! Take that person out of your life as much as you can. And start again.....life is short don't waste it on that person alone. When the time is right, it will come to you..................Best of luck!
2007-03-09 03:08:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about the person that caused the broken heart and try to move on with a smile and a brave face, however much pain that must be.
2007-03-09 03:00:20 · answer #8 · answered by ♥H] ッ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a broken heart eventually heals its self over a period of time, just dont try to rebel against your heart, you might become even more attached, just take things as they come and keep reminding yourself how strong you are and that your better off now then how you was before
good luck
2007-03-09 03:02:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u cant.....im sorry...i just lost my 5 year old son 1/27/07 and i know for a fact u cant heal a broken heart..some say time heals wounds but im still awaiting that time...
2007-03-09 03:01:14 · answer #10 · answered by love2005wisdom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time
2007-03-09 03:01:10 · answer #11 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋