will the relationship work with all this drama i need your opinion???????

Question

we care for each other an do anything for each other he took me to places ive never been before an ect. lately its been bumpy. we argue more an he a little disrespectful somtimes. hes not a horrible person. i tell him what i dont like an he chages it. but hes starting to get over protective an tiny bit controlling.im controlling with him to, so hes not the only one. he continually gets mad if i wear certain undercloths to work an jokes that i have somebody else because i wear victoria secret. its not that i have somebody else, i want to feel sexy. i have a problem with authority an hes starting to act like a father instead of a fiance. so what should i do stay an see if he gos back to his good ways or get out of it. its worse enough that im extra sensative because i have depression.

he is the most nicest and friendliest guy you can ever meet

Answer 1

Just becuase you are in a realationship does not mean you have to stop being sexy! He should be flattered that you are! Besides, VS undies are HOT and COMFORTABLE! Comfort is KEY! You need to do what you want! i think he is insecure. That is almost sweet cause he doest want to loose you to another. Tell him you flattered but it is annoying as hell!

Answer 2

Run as far and as fast as you can. You teach people how to treat you and since you have stayed with him after he treated you like a child and was disrespectful, why should he change? No one has a right to tell you want to wear and jealousy is not a sign of how much he loves you.

You need to deal with your depression and determine why you accept this type of behavior. Until you do, its probably best that you dont get into any relationships. Put the effort you have put into all of this drama and him into yourself. You will get stronger and stop attracting losers like him.

Answer 3

if you like the drama and control issues, go for it.

he sounds needy.