the thing is - its such a small office that i dont want any trouble to come out of it
2007-03-09 03:02:21 · 14 answers · asked by nina c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Steer clear for now, he may be on the rebound and you could get hurt. just be friendly but don't get involved, see how things are in a month or so.
2007-03-09 03:07:09 · answer #1 · answered by Nickynackynoo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was a long term relationship, I would give it abit of time. You don't want to end up the "rebound" girl, who he will dump as soon as u heal his pain. Secondly I would re-think dating a guy in the same work place as u. I did that, and two years later when we split up, my life at work turned into hell. It also was a very small space, and he didn't want the split, so he tortured me mentally everyday until I couldn't take it anymore and had to quit my job that I had for years. It's all fun until something happens and u have to see the person everyday. Think about that before making your move, but do give him time and make sure he is over her first. Good luck
2007-03-09 03:10:32 · answer #2 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy you like has just split up with his long term girlfriend so he is probably going through a lot of stress, try to help him go through by being his friend and help him get over it, give it a few months and he might just fall into your arms without you saying anything, or if you both feel the same you will be able to feel it. leave it a few months and if nothing happens have a shot and see what he says, you never no he might feel the same but you dont no untill you try. if he doesnt then things will settle down between you quickly enough. hope i could help.
2007-03-09 03:08:06 · answer #3 · answered by gerrard4life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful - you work in a small office which could make things very awkward indeed if it doens't work out. Be there as a friend - I would imagine that he is not interested immediately in another relationship.
2007-03-09 03:10:38 · answer #4 · answered by Bexs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely, to me, it type of feels she needs you to pass in, yet she is making it sparkling that whether you do, you could no longer be spending from now on high quality time mutually on account which you at the instant are not her variety a million priority. Her newborn comes first (because it may) her kin comes 2d and you come back in third whilst she would have the capacity to squeeze interior the time. Her moving in suggestion has extra to do with convenience and money than it does approximately taking the relationship any added emotionally or on a dedication stand element. It sounds extra like a roommate with reward style of a deal. i could ask myself in case you think of you could take care of residing together with her under her words or no longer. I also have a feeling you would be disillusioned relating to the residing arrangements if she sticks to her words. you could finally end up envious and lonely. i think of i could stumble on a place of my own and pass in together with her if the relationship strikes to that element, yet i does no longer do it now. it is your existence nevertheless, in basic terms you could come to a determination what's authentic for you.
2016-11-23 17:18:45 · answer #5 · answered by demeritte 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, trouble will come out of it. When you go to work, you should feel relaxed, not trying to dodge a jerk you went out with, for 8 hours a day. This is why it is also better to date someone NOT in your high school, dormitory etc.....
Pure misery!
2007-03-09 03:33:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was a long term relationship..then from experience i would pass him by..he not fully healed no matter if he says so..the majority always ends up getting back with the x or cheating on u with the x or mistreating u cause u aint the x or because he thinks u go do him like the x..give it time...
2007-03-09 03:09:45 · answer #7 · answered by love2005wisdom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. Never mix business & pleasure. What if i all goes wrong it could end up a very uncomfortable situation. Or it could all work out great. Go with your gut feeling.
2007-03-09 03:20:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
slow your roll, bad idea, don't do it, trouble, misery,get it?
if it does not work out your life caneasily be made miserable and you will wind uo looking for another job as a result so JUST DON'T DO IT!!!!
2007-03-09 03:11:29 · answer #9 · answered by miss-ee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him some time to adjust with his break up then go for it. tell him in private, make sure he knows what you are really like and just talk to him.
2007-03-09 03:08:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋