or get him drunk and then tell him, then if he rejects you he will not remember
2007-03-09 02:57:48
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answered by Anonymous
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No. This bothers you and effects you personally and alcohol won't make things any better. Your actions and thoughts will only be aggravated. You don't want confrontation at this point because you are not totally sure of his feelings. You might even get angry that he attracts you and say something to p** Him Off. Getting drunk is not the answer. It only lowers your inhibitions and loose lips will sink all your ships.
My advice (2 cents please) would be to use your best smile more and have a little patience. Men usually like to do the chasing. I know that doesn't seem fair but you will benefit from it. Wait and See. Now smile and bat those eyelashes.
2007-03-09 03:04:35
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answered by Pamela 5
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No...because then he's only going to think you're saying it because you're drunk and then you'll come off as an idiot or jacka$$ for doing it like that. Have one shot of courage maybe before telling him how you feel. It's hard to do but what have you got to lose? He's either going to say he doesn't like you in that way, no comments, or he's going to tell you if he returns those feelings but not under the influence. Not the right way to go about it all. Best of luck!
2007-03-09 02:59:11
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answered by Anonymous
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If you really care about him tell him when you're sober. Besides if you're sure he likes you then what are you afraid of? And if he finds out you were drunk when you told him he might feel that it was only the drinks talking and that what you said weren't your true feelings for him.
2007-03-09 03:01:01
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answered by cooldude 3
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YOU ARE'NT SERIOUS??!!!!! ALL THOUGH IF YOU DID DO IT THAT WAY AND HE TURNED OUT TO BE A THROW AWAY YOU COULD SAY"WELL I REALLY DID'NTLIKE YOU ANYWAY I WAS JUST DRUNK." BESIDES WHAT DIFFERENCE DOES IT MAKE IF HE DOES'NT LIKE YOU? IF HE DOES'NT LIKE YOU, YOU HE DOES'NT LIKE YOU. SO QUIT BEING A WIMPY, IMATURE LITTLE GIRL, AND START ACTING LIKE A SELF CONFIDENT , STRONG YOUNG WOMAN AND GO GET WHAT YOU WANT. BELEIVE ME IF HE DOES LIKE YOU, HE;LL LIKE YOU EVEN MORE IF YOU GET WHAT YOU WANT SOBER INSTEAD OF HIDING BEHIND A BOTTLE BOOZE. HERE'S A QUESTION FOR YOU, EVERYTIME YOU NEED TO DO SOMETHING THAT MIGHT OPEN YOU UP TO REJECTION ARE YOU GOING TO HAVE TO BE DRUNK TO DO IT? IF SO, I 'M SO SORRY, YOU HAVE A LONG HARD LIFE AHEAD OF YOU.
2007-03-09 03:24:17
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answered by onejinjer 1
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Instead of getting drunk, perhaps you and him could have a few to loosen up a little and then you could lead into the subject gradually and sort of find out how he feels about you while you are telling him about how you feel.
2007-03-09 02:59:58
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answered by don n 6
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getting drunk to tell someone how you feel is not a good idea. been there done that. and it backfired. if you are having trouble telling him just pull him aside and say it bluntly. get it over with. save the getting drunk for if he rejects you.
2007-03-09 03:00:29
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answered by msladysmith 2
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No i do not think u dhould get drunk just to tell him how u feel it is a bad idea! But u should just tell him u have nothin to lose and everything to gain. Be honest and open about it if u like him and he likes you. Go for it!!!
2007-03-09 03:00:23
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answered by kendra s 1
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You need to grow some balls and just tell him, if you are drunk he probably isnt going to take you serious. Just tell him how you feel. If he tells you know it is not the end of the world. He is the one that is missing out.
2007-03-09 02:58:16
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answered by **baby~doll** 3
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Not a good idea to do that. You might wind up doing something you'll regret. And worse still, he might get the impression you're a drunkard. Be more confident of yourself. You don't want him to get the wrong impression, and dont ever put yourself in a situation that leaves you vulnerable.
2007-03-09 03:00:23
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answered by Christopher M 1
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It might come out wrong if you say it when you are drunk. Just tell him....write a note or something. You gotta get out or nothing will ever happen.
2007-03-09 02:57:09
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answered by amberlynne_2007 3
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