ok well i just started talking to this girl right. She gave me her number and so we text a lot and talk to each other on our E-Mail. But when we see eachother we dont have anything to say. so please give me some ideas on what to say. Cause i feel so shy but maybe if i no what to say i wont be as much.
2007-03-09 03:04:27 · 11 answers · asked by *яσcκєт qυєєи;(: 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
See We didnt use to like each other but now were Friends!! Im A Gurl And Shes a gurl but i dont no what to say 2 her.. help!!!
2007-03-09 03:12:40 · update #1
eh, that really depends on the person. Try picking up a topic you already discussed on text/mail
2007-03-09 03:07:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think back to your emails and texts...What sort of subjects did you find easiest to chat about? Talk about those things in person...the things you have in common are the easiest things to make a connection on. Usually once you get a conversation started, it's natural that you just jump from topic to topic. If you can arrange an activity for when you get together (even something as simple as browsing through a book store or looking for a cute shirt) that can be helpful too!
Just be yourself and your friendship will be great. You've already got a great start! You made a connection via email and text so you shouldn't have any trouble making the jump to "real" conversation and friendship.
Good luck!
2007-03-09 03:13:19 · answer #2 · answered by E.J.S. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry , I think that you are just still quite young and unsure of yourself, you will develop more confidence as you begin to experience more of life, ,just have patience. If you are shy, then that is where you are at this stage in your life and it does not mean that there is anything wrong with you. Accept yourself for who you are right now.
2007-03-09 03:12:36 · answer #3 · answered by myleshunt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about the same things you guys talk about try to bring up when you bring up one conversation believe me it will Leeds to others you guys just need to just more time in person then on e-mail
2007-03-09 03:08:09 · answer #4 · answered by Kstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She won't have self assurance you! Do you like him? seems such as you do! and do never have self assurance definitely everybody while they inform you they do unlike somebody extraordinarily in the event that they're adamant approximately it; looks to me this guy you're close with does not want you to understand how he may be feeling approximately your pal. regardless of his motives, i does not tell her! permit her locate out on her very own whether or no longer he likes her. it variety of feels as though that is going to ensue quicker or later and in all probability quicker. do no longer you think of so?
2016-09-30 10:41:59 · answer #5 · answered by vyky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think u should fall back on talking to her by email, text, and stuff. cause i was like that one time wit this gurl. so when u do stop talking to her as much, u will have something to say when u see her..........OR (just trying to help u), u could keep doing wat u do now, and instead of talking when u see her DO stuff wit her, if u know wat i mean.
2007-03-09 03:13:49 · answer #6 · answered by Drake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think it has to do with shyness, more like you are speechless by the fact that you guys are actually together. bring up a joke you shared over the phone, or start with what you ended with on the phone.
2007-03-09 03:09:30 · answer #7 · answered by banglaangel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you need to try n find out wot she likes, and wot she dislikes maybe you share the same interests, and then u have summat 2 talk about
2007-03-09 03:07:15 · answer #8 · answered by lealea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are the topicts you talk about on your e-mail??? Try talking more about them face to face, and try to leave e-mail, so you will have more questions.
2007-03-09 03:08:46 · answer #9 · answered by angyalka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no set dialog to dateing u shud just say wot u thin/feel in the moment an dnt wurry abut wot u say or how u say it.
2007-03-09 03:07:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋