I wrote earlier about the evil plotting slug, and your answers were very helpful. Another page in the story is that her current husband is a police officer. In another county from us, but nearby. We have even found out that she was caught speeding and almost had a head on colision with my husbands child in the back seat, but no one wrote her a ticket because of her husband. She is allowed to do whatever, whenever. I considered a restraining order, but my husband thinks that if I take that kind of action against her, it will make the situation worse. I feel as if my hands are tied. I can understand my hubby's feelings of not wanting to harm his relationship with his daughter, but where do you draw the line? It is her mother causing the problems. How does he keep a relationship with his child and allow me to take action against her? I don't feel like it is fair for my son and I to have to live w/o my husband just to make her play nice. She is relentless. I feel so caught.
2007-03-09 03:05:38 · 9 answers · asked by momof5 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why would you feel the need to leave? You have your man. Leaving would just satisfy her. Stick around. Give your son his father and let your husband handle this one. No reason for you to get your hands dirty because it sounds like that is what she wants. You say she is married. Her current husband has to deal with her nuttiness, not you. Give it up to God (or whoever) and let time mend this stuff. Good luck!
2007-03-09 03:25:06 · answer #1 · answered by ESTamez 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-25 07:44:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow..You sound angry and bitter that you are the second wife and that there will always be that woman in his life. You can not cause problems with him and his ex whife and kid because you want to act like a spoiled child. You sound like you have a...wanna get even...personality and should rethink your actions. The only person you will be hurting is the kid.
Jealousy is not pretty on anyone
2007-03-09 03:36:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I answered your previous question too.
The fact that the husband is a Cop has nothing to do with what she is doing. As I said, collect evidence, and bring her to justice.
Now, for what you said, your husband is going weak and letting this happened because of the kid he has with her.
To be honest, he is being selfish. When he decided to marry you, he also gave his promise to you that he will take care of you and will be with you in good or bad situations. Obviously he is not being with you in this bad situation.
He needs to take action, because he might loose you and the kid that you two have as well if he keeps on going like that. You must sit down with him, and have a very serious conversation. He must understand that you will not tolerate that woman trying to mess your matrimony. You must also agree that there has to be something done about his kid with her, and that you are there to help in everything, and if he wants to bring the kid to your home, then you will be more than happy. As I said in my other answer, is not the kid’s fault.
I seriously would talk to him, and hopefully he should understand and take actions… real actions. A lawyer is recommended for this case. That woman must stop doing what she is doing. I would also make a call to her husband, and have a serious conversation with him. He is a cop and he must act as one or you can also get him in trouble, and he knows it.
One last chance for this whole thing can be actually her husband because you (both of you) can let him know (with proof on hand and a lawyer sitting next to you) that his wife has mental problems, she is illegally harassing you and your husband, and unless he puts a stop to it, you will take legal actions, and your husband will try to claim his kid in court as she is not mentally stable to be a mother.
With a lawyer in hand, he will know you two are serious and ready to take actions. And if he doesn’t cooperate, then go ahead and put the whole thing in court.
Unless you don’t want to stay with your husband, you will have to confront reality, and reality sucks.
Good luck, and don’t let anybody get in your way or step on you.
2007-03-09 03:28:29 · answer #4 · answered by Dan D 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The relationship between your husband and his ex-wife and child is his business. You need to stay out of it. Its not your fight, but his.
Leave her alone and hope she does the same for you.
2007-03-09 03:11:28 · answer #5 · answered by jack w 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-11 01:13:06 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can suggest is to call and talk to her husbands boss. Tell him what is going on and ask that they do something or you will have to press charges.
2007-03-09 03:11:28 · answer #8 · answered by msladysmith 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What if her current husband is a cop?
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