my friends say that they are my best friends to my face and then say something entirely different behind my back.
yesterday my friend Sam let me read a note between her and two of my other friends. they all said that they don't care about my moods. one even said i get on their nerves. they don't want to hang around me.
what do you do when you feel backstabbed by friends and people you have known for nearly all your life?
2007-03-09 03:04:46 · 4 answers · asked by i_love_rain 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You act like an adult or at least a mature young person and you find new friends and leave your old "friends" behind. Obviously these people aren't truly your friends because friends DON'T do that to each other. Even your friend Sam was deliberately hurting your feelings. Go volunteer at the local animal shelter, nursing home or hospital. Go join a community athletic club, or a book club at the local library or book store. You will find a new circle of friends and be doing something good for yourself and your community. Good luck and God Bless.
2007-03-09 03:09:56 · answer #1 · answered by tersey562 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, this is a really hard situation. I see that the people that you always trusted don't really like you. That means that they aren't your friends anymore. I know it's hard, but try to avoid them and forget about the past. Look at your future and yo'll see that you will someday find real friends. Friends that will like you the way you are. Friends that won't want to change you. Stop caring about the ones that have hurt you. Let them realise that what they did was wrong, and that you don't want to hang around with them. Start carin about the ones that will love you, even if you haven't met them yet.
(If you need to talk to omeone about this, don't hesitate to contact me. I've also been hurt by my "friends".)
2007-03-09 03:15:10 · answer #2 · answered by firefly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
igonre them ! don`t care about them and try to find some new friends and STOP hanging out with them and don`t talk to them much if they don`t want you, just go away and they will relaize your value ! and if you don`t like to leave there friendship , try to talk to them about the note and what there proplem is ! try to fix it! maybe they have some thing they don`t like about you ! but the true friend will tell you about your bad side "you know every one has a bad side and a good side"
2007-03-09 03:23:49 · answer #3 · answered by pearl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look within youself first, maybe you are doing something annoying or maybe they are just playing "follow the leader" which High school or Jr. high school kids often plays....find out who is ther ring leader and confront her.
2007-03-09 03:20:08 · answer #4 · answered by Evangeless 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋