why are some people so dead set on ex's having no chance of getting back together? if you two have been apart for some time and have grown up and gotten over the past hurt and issues, can the relationship work?
2007-03-09 03:48:53 · 23 answers · asked by so_sincere 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Those people that are so 'dead set against it' are the ones it won't work for -- but if you and her feel you've been apart long enough and have grown up in a way that you can try it again -- why not. You two are the only ones who can decide if it will or not.
Maybe now you're the age where you can appreciate one another the way you were meant to.
Good luck and all the best.
Macs
2007-03-09 04:06:51 · answer #1 · answered by Just my opinion. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah it sure can work and many time it as worked. I don't recommend you guys find your ex and try to work things out tho. If by any chance you run into your ex down the road and things seem like they could work out go for it. But remember that most times that ex's get back together they don't work out b/c people did not change. She might have not changed and things you found unattractive and you might not have changed and things she found unattractive with you. But like you said if you guys been apart for some time (many years) maybe, just maybe you both grew up and became adults and left your old ways. Then you might find hope and a fresh start with your old ex but also her being a new person.
2007-03-09 11:59:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its a possibility. The reason some ex's aren't friends after they break up is because of how their relationship ended. Or because some think that they cant just be friends after all that they've been through. If you want to get back together with your ex take things slow and try being friends first and take it from there. You dont want to rush into it because you may scare them off or it could lead to things that may just make your relationship worst.
2007-03-09 11:55:43 · answer #3 · answered by Alli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always believe anything can happen, but always depends on the situation, and how much you really want it. 7 years ago, I met a great guy, we dated for only a little bit, but we broke up cause of distance. We both moved on...I actually dated another guy for 5 years but ended up breaking up. So when we broke up..I started talkin to this first guy again, and we ended up being together! Now we are engaged and together for almost 2 years, and we have both grown up and learned a lot so our relationship is good! So anything is possible, as long as you put ur heart to it!
2007-03-09 11:54:14 · answer #4 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a bad idea. People may "grow up" but I think that some things can't be changed, or that people revert to past habbits.
My ex-wife & I had issues (obviously, since we broke up). So we seperated for TWO years, while we (I think just me) tried to work them out, to no avail. Well, I decided to move on & got divorced. I eventually find someone new (my now wife of 10 years). When my ex-wife learned that I was serious and was getting married, all of a sudden she was agreeable and wanted to work everything out. I said NO. If I got burned the 1st time, who's to say it won't happen again...instead, go for a fresh start.
Hey, you think your situation is different? Then go for it.
2007-03-09 11:58:43 · answer #5 · answered by Voice_Of_Reason 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, they can. Yuo have to work through whatever it was that split you up the first time. My husband and I were married for 9 yrs., went through a divorce, was apart 8 months, got back together and remarried. We have been together 30 yrs. now all together.
2007-03-09 11:56:24 · answer #6 · answered by nice_witch40 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relation can re-born again if they we sincerely realizing their mistakes and so willing not to repeat them for the sake of the true love that was there. A seperation can be for or against a second re-union of a couple or at least would be a valuable experience for a least losses in the coming one.
2007-03-09 11:53:14 · answer #7 · answered by Sara007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because no matter what either of them say the person that was hurt is always going to remember the hurt and have suspicions everytime they get into an arguement which usually leads to her wanting to get "pay back" so to speak.
2007-03-09 12:01:55 · answer #8 · answered by michelle m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. Every situation is different. If there was no betrayal or cruelty and both people are interested it could work.
Sometimes people just meet at the wrong time, and eventually find their way back to eachother.
2007-03-09 11:56:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that Xs can get back 2gether if they have 4 gave each other an they can learn to change 4 eachother
2007-03-09 11:54:50 · answer #10 · answered by renee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋