Family & Relationships - 7 March 2007

now she is mad that i read all her answers!! Is it wrong for me to read all her answers or is it creepy? would you call it stalking??

2007-03-07 04:45:06 · 14 answers · asked by prince14 3 in Singles & Dating

Should I be worried? My boyfriend is always jealous follows me around checks my call, computer, etc I have never cheated on him I just want a little time to myself or time with friends. He is moody and most of the time. I am worried now he went and bought a gun, which he keeps on him.
It seems he looks for things to fight about, phone rings i pick it up WHO IS IT?? picks up the other line/ my mom. Why are you wearing that? jeans and a tank? you out looking for someone? No I am taking my son to the doctor. This goes on daily and god forbid if he starts drinking, he is really evil.
His friends told me all the grilfriends he has had has left, or cheated now I am paying for their sins.
What do you think?

2007-03-07 04:44:22 · 24 answers · asked by me 2 in Singles & Dating

Guys? Men? Hombre?
Is it a better place or a dull world?
What do you think?
Just curious. (--,)

2007-03-07 04:44:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont think I do....

2007-03-07 04:43:08 · 35 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy at my school I really like (even I'm surprised because I'm so picky). But I'm really stuck for how to get him to notice me! I hardly see him around (he's in another year) and he seems so cool, I wouldn't know what to say. He probably has a girlfriend who's in his year and I feel nervous to approach him although I am a confident person. One friend suggested tripping over in front of him, but I felt that was a bit...desperate maybe. But I really like him...what should I do?

2007-03-07 04:41:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I do, but I guess it was just part of growing up, I have a pologised to Mum and Dad though. I know realise how much they gave up to bring up me and bruv and sis.

2007-03-07 04:41:49 · 30 answers · asked by Dustbowl Blues 3 in Family

His kids can be unruly and disrespectful in rude rude ways....name calling etc......They pretend they like me and when they go back to their moms they text message me rude rude things and name call. I am upset over this. My fiancee says he will do something about it. I however don't know what to do or say to the kids. It is basically ONE boy mostly. He is a terror sometimes. I am so nice to all of them and this is what I get in return? It hurts. What is your advice for ME? Serious answers only please. This is really going on and is not getting any easier for me. My child doesn't act like this to my fiancee'. The mother of these kids thinks it is okay for them to act this way.

2007-03-07 04:41:09 · 17 answers · asked by MOM OF ONE 6 in Family

my husband and I had a seperation period for about a year and a half. we recently got back together in the beginning of this year. Everything with him is different now since we got back. He communicates A LOT better with me, he is more affectionate and he is more family oriented. We have not came to the point where we are living with each other again but he comes to my house everyday to be together and the kids and I spend the weekends at his house.

Is this change for good? Or is it just something for the meantime so that he can come back home? It just all seems to be to good to be true. I dont know what to think or whether I should get my hopes up on this change. People tell me that maybe he has realized what he had lost and doesnt want that to happen again. Can you men give me your perspective of how you guys think? Thanks....

2007-03-07 04:40:49 · 29 answers · asked by Jacinda 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Also why do married men age & grow grey hair faster than single men ?

2007-03-07 04:40:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

UK only please. Do you have kids with a man who has to pay for a child from a previous relationship? I do and we've, just been tols we should come up with £1050, by friday. If not 40% of my partners wages will be taken EACH WEEK, until further notice. We have always provided for this child, but because his ex decides that working just isn't for her, we have to pay the price.
Sorry for the moan. Just wanna hear from anyone in a similar situation. What did you do?(apart from take it up the jaxy from the CSA).

2007-03-07 04:40:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've dated this girl for a year and things were great up until the last month or two. We would fight a lot over the amount of time she and I would spend together (I'm in grad school, she isn't; I work a lot more hours than she does). Every fight revolved around our time together and what she saw as me not being committed to the relationship. At one point she wanted me to move in, and when I refused she thought I was non-commital.
Anyway, she breaks up with me a few times, then comes back asking for another chance. The last time I broke it off and we went a month without talking, then she calls again, asking me "am I sure we need to be apart?". I still have feelings for this girl, but things haven't changed. I'm still in school and will be for a while, and I still work some crazy hours that take me away from her.
Do I give it another shot if she says she's changed? Can I assume she can deal with my time constraints, or are we destined to fail because she wants what I can't give?

2007-03-07 04:40:00 · 5 answers · asked by TooMuch 4 in Singles & Dating

well every time i met a new guy i feel like i want to go out with him and that i like him but after i get to know him a lot better the feeling goes away. is it just that i miss being in a realationship or just subconsiousnes

2007-03-07 04:38:32 · 23 answers · asked by marielys m 2 in Singles & Dating

i have been married for 5 years i love my wife; however, i still have contact with my ex-fiance whom i've know for 12 yrs. Is this cheating?

2007-03-07 04:38:10 · 29 answers · asked by crush 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Dear Friends, My brother got married with a girl from U.K belongs to our caste only but now they are putting lots of pressure on him, they are really harrassing us, he is not sending e mails, not coming t chat and what ever he speaks in phone, his In-laws words in my brother speech.
I don't know what to do. plz guide me.. He is in London.

2007-03-07 04:37:34 · 5 answers · asked by Darshak K 2 in Family

he is married for 7yrs and has 2 kids.he doesnt love HER anymore and told me he would want to be with me rather than his wife. his wife really treats him like ****. we have so much in common and we're happy being together. he told me to just wait for some time because he's going to file for a legal separation. but im thinking it would be a very long process so how long will i be the "2nd" girl? i love him soo much and he tells me the same thing too and i can feel it. i just feel guilty,especially for the kids, though he said its not my fault coz long before i came, he's already planning for a separation.

is this right or wrong? should i stay and wait or should i opt to wait for someone who is single? im really confused. if he's already separated,can we still be sued for adultery or something?

please help me!

2007-03-07 04:37:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

They Want Nothing Anything More To Do With Him. He Still Has A Good Job, But If They Call At Home, Most Times He's Way To Drunk To Go Out And Help. If He Talks To Them At All. I Have Made The Mistake Of Excuses For Him. If He's Passed Out I Cant Wake Him. Or He Gets Really Really Pissed IF I Tell Anyone He's Home..A Far As I Know He's Not Drinking On The Job, But Who Knows. He Doesn't Think Theirs Any Issue. But We All Have Tried And Tried Begged For Him Just To Concider Their Might Be A Problem. He Is The Worse Drunk On Earth. He Was Physicaly Abusive Years Ago, Untill I Fought Back And Kicked HIS ***. But Then I Was As Bad As He. He Never Rembers Anything The Day After. So I Have Been Taping Him. Not For Anyother Reason But To Hear Himself. Won't Listen, Or Thinks Tape Altered.But The Forgetfulness Is Very Different Now, Now He Doesn't Remember Things From One Min To The Next.Which At That Time He Doesnt Remember Where The Toilet Is .Not Married w/o Kids Can I Get Him Comitted Help

2007-03-07 04:37:08 · 1 answers · asked by Shawneerain1 1 in Family

Ok im lost and torn in two way's. Im not sure if i should move out of my house. i live with my boyfriend and things haven't gone so well. If i move out i guess i will be saving money,. I don't want to loose him becouse if i move out i kind of having a feeling that we will be done after awhile. If i move in with my grandma my father will get mad becouse he hates her. what should i do? im 18 and i make dessions for my self. i don't have a mom to talk to and its not like i can run to her, im just confussed and all i want to do is cry..

2007-03-07 04:37:06 · 11 answers · asked by twistedinlime 1 in Singles & Dating

I always do the laundry and one day she left me a note saying "use more soap on panties." This had gone on for a few weeks with the same note saying "use more soap on panties." Finally fed up, I left her a note saying "use more paper on a*s."

2007-03-07 04:37:04 · 25 answers · asked by SEAHAWK 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has in a really bad motorcycle accident the doctors didnt expect him to live. He ended up coming out of it doing everything they said he wouldnt do. he has a little problem with his speach and we also have to work with his right arm. now i just started to go back to work this week and he has totally changed its like he doesnt want me around he doent want me to help him or touch him.(before he only wanted me to do things for him) he wont tell me whats bothering him. its really hurting me and i am having a hard time dealing with it.
i cant figure out why he is acting this way toward me.

2007-03-07 04:36:04 · 23 answers · asked by redhot_001 3 in Singles & Dating

There's this student teacher at my school that I really liked so I told my friend but this other girl overheard. She told another person who claimed that the teacher likes her and flirts with her. Then my friend asked him and he got really upset saying he could lose his job and wanting to know who started the rumours. I just want to tell him that it isn't a big deal because it's hardly a rumour but how do I do that? I'll have to tell him the whole story, including the fact that I like him...?

2007-03-07 04:36:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

have been fighting with my husband alot. He is illegal from Mexico. We have a baby girl who is turning 1 2morrow. I love her with all my heart and even he knows this too well. We live with my parents living@home makes me feel safe. My husband has a tendency of getting violent. doesn't beat me but at times will hit me once then stop. Last fight; jealous over me spending time with my family.BAD. The next day, thinking my partents heard us, he calls my dad saying i talk bad about my family. And that is why he can't have a relationship with them. He exagerated alot. basically, when i have afight with my family i tell him how i feel. so now i feel i can't trust him, cuz he is using that against me. I pay the bills mostly. He spends his money on whatever. Him=always late picking up our baby, Me=i don't want to hear the bitching from my aunt, Him=tells her i call her a *****! him=move out with me. Me=can't afford it. Me=divorce? Him=I'll take Maria to Mex and U will never see her again! Help!

2007-03-07 04:35:54 · 15 answers · asked by b 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been married for four years. We had amazing sex before marriage and even the first two years after. Now, he feels that I've pushed him away so much that he's lost touch with his manhood. He feels that he can never get over this and he resents me for it. I never felt like I pushed him away to that extent. No, I was not willing 100% of the time, but neither was he. He's hurt my confidence level too. What do we do? We love each other very much and we both know this. HELP!

2007-03-07 04:35:15 · 11 answers · asked by babygirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-07 04:35:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

that i feel that he is neglecting me and ignoring me.

2007-03-07 04:35:03 · 18 answers · asked by nikki 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what i ve started to doubt is bothering me very much. my wife is very beautiful , intelligent and social, but in comparison i m not so handsom and social. she can make friend easily where i m very reserved. she is quite popular in our socity where i m almost unknown, she has good health but i m thine. So my doubt hovers sometime why my wife loves me too much( though i always expect it from her), why she always gives a negetive comment to my friends whom i think much attractive in opposite sex. I fear whether she will stop to love me...though i dont find any indication or ground of this doubt. i doubt what love she is giving me is more than i deserve. Am I a maniac/what should I do to stop this baseless doubt? please advise .

2007-03-07 04:34:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We've been together for almost two years and have an 8 month old son. We didn't get married when she got pregnant because we didn't wanna do it for the wrong reasons. We seperated for two and a half months and got back together a couple months ago and we're doing better than we ever have and we love each other more than we have ever loved each other before. Do you think I should propose now or see how it goes for a while longer?

2007-03-07 04:34:23 · 12 answers · asked by taco 2 in Weddings

He made a promise to go because he says he wants to try and save our marriage. He canceled the past 2 times and just didn't show up the 3rd. this will be the 4th time to go all together and I went by myself. But I really need him there because I can't work at our marriage by myself. He says he doesn't want someone telling him how to run his life. I told him thats not what she is there for she is just there to help us learn to talk to each other without fighting. We can't do it alone and he agrees with me on that part but hes still not making a point to go when hes the one that set it up in the first place. I left him once with the kids and he doesn't want that to happen again and yet he knows I will not stay if all we do is argue and get no where. Thats where the counselor came in to the picture but he keeps making excuses not to be there. What can I do, I'm not one to give up but this marriage will get no where if we both don't get help. I love him, but not enough to continue fighting

2007-03-07 04:31:39 · 12 answers · asked by Koozie 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Αll of my friends have fought and they all are asking for me to work their problems out.Furthermore,i've seen the guy who is flirting me hugging another girl,who is so much not like me.A friend of me(she didn't fought with anyone)advised me to be a couple with him when i could but i knew that this would happen cause we are not at the same schooland he is two years older(i am 12,he is 14).what should i do????

2007-03-07 04:31:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf and i have been together on and off for almost 10 months.We just got engaged and i really love him.I am worried about some of his illegal money making ideas(fraud/stealing).His parents pay his college tuition/rm board like mine and he lives on an allowance off of about 330 dollars a month for basic things he does not work.I suspect that he is going through with some of his schemes because he is spending a lot of money (plasma T.V? etc.)When i asked if his parents had raised his allowance he said no that he had other means of making money.I am afraid he is up too something stupid and will end up getting arrested!He seems to think he is invinsible because he has no record and his parents can get him a good layer if he get in trouble.Why wont he take my advice and stop whatever he is up too?

2007-03-07 04:31:27 · 13 answers · asked by Kristen M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He approached one of my friends to find out if I have a boyfriend. We have yet to start dating. We have talked and do have a lot in common. He asked for my number. I found out he has an on again, off again girlfriend. Should I ask him about it or wait and see if he brings it up?

2007-03-07 04:31:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating