what i ve started to doubt is bothering me very much. my wife is very beautiful , intelligent and social, but in comparison i m not so handsom and social. she can make friend easily where i m very reserved. she is quite popular in our socity where i m almost unknown, she has good health but i m thine. So my doubt hovers sometime why my wife loves me too much( though i always expect it from her), why she always gives a negetive comment to my friends whom i think much attractive in opposite sex. I fear whether she will stop to love me...though i dont find any indication or ground of this doubt. i doubt what love she is giving me is more than i deserve. Am I a maniac/what should I do to stop this baseless doubt? please advise .
2007-03-07 04:34:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Stop worrying. You have a wonderful wife. Just love her.
Your doubts would at some point of time impact your attitude towards her. That may bring in troubles in your married life. Instead, just think more about impressing her again and again, surprising her with some gifts, ensure romance is well maintained in your life, and so on. This is life, we have very little time to express our love. Don't waste it with your doubts.
All the best...
:-)
2007-03-07 08:58:13 · answer #1 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
completed 5 years happily married life love personally
2016-02-01 02:52:26 · answer #2 · answered by Stacee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not a maniac , I have gone across a same kind of case where the lady is very beautiful , intelligent and social.The other things are also same, she is hvng gud health.Husband is just ok looking nd nt so smart nd social.This lady is my gud friend.
what i can see in their relationship, the love nd care of the husband is the solid ground for the lady stay attached and love him more n more.Thats the reason that she dont find any other male very attractive nd handsome even if they are.
So dear stop worrying and keep loving her.
Your love nd care vil never let her go away from you.
I should say u must really be great husband.
Keep loving .Good Luck
2007-03-07 05:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by remote 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you are feeling. Sometimes I feel afraid that one day my wife will up and decide she married the wrong person. She always assures me like your wife does. I think you should relax and be thankful that you have each other and stop doubting the love you share. She sees something special in you just like you do in her. It sounds like you compliment each other. Good luck to you and I hope you have many more happy years together.
2007-03-07 05:36:53 · answer #4 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
reading of your things like you love your wife very much .so some times like this things comes in our minds its all normal .so don't think so much about your wife she also loves you that's why she is communicate happily with society .so people are thinking positive way that you are lucky man. u got such nice wife, love her more as you can. best of luck
2007-03-07 07:16:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stop worrying. Your wife sounds as being a very caring women and probably she likes the way you are, that you are introspective where she is so social.
Usually opposite attracts. She loves you.
2007-03-07 04:42:12 · answer #6 · answered by remy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop beating yourself down like that............remember that beauty is in the eye of the beholder and that everyone's definition of beautiful doesn't always mean on the outside. Everyone has different preferences. She loves you because of the "beauty" that she sees in you. If you didn't have great qualities that she admires and or likes, then she wouldn't be with you. Don't destroy your relationship with her by what you fail to see in yourself. .
2007-03-07 15:55:08 · answer #7 · answered by artutina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just have faith and believe she is undoubtly in love with you.
Questioning and being negative about that could possibly only cause problems where there don't need to be any.
2007-03-07 04:39:19 · answer #8 · answered by sapphire_630 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question hit me right at home. First of all, my Fiancee is not that attractive to others, but to me, he is the most beautiful person on earth and I would not trade him in for the most handsome man on earth even if they paid me a million dollars. Obviously your wife is able to see beauty from within as she has seen this in you. Stop having doubts of her love. She loves you for who you are and for the love you have shown her. Treasure her for this as I know she treasures you, Remember, we all get old, looks start to dimish. Lasting beauty is from within us. Love her and be happy to be also loved by her as I know she is happy to be loved by you.
2007-03-07 16:43:43 · answer #9 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everything is fine in your life nothing to worry but every human being find something to worry on although if nothing but to solve this just think positive about you wife
2007-03-07 06:41:54 · answer #10 · answered by asin k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋