Ok im lost and torn in two way's. Im not sure if i should move out of my house. i live with my boyfriend and things haven't gone so well. If i move out i guess i will be saving money,. I don't want to loose him becouse if i move out i kind of having a feeling that we will be done after awhile. If i move in with my grandma my father will get mad becouse he hates her. what should i do? im 18 and i make dessions for my self. i don't have a mom to talk to and its not like i can run to her, im just confussed and all i want to do is cry..
2007-03-07 04:37:06 · 11 answers · asked by twistedinlime 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
awwww i feel for you completely i am married and 18 and my relationship sucks too we live in a city by ourselves and i have no one to run to either cuz i made the choice to move out so i cant give you any advice but to keep your head up and do what you feel is right email me if you wanna talk.
2007-03-07 04:41:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be wait, wait and pray soon something just has to make sense. Not having a mother is only one bad thing but don't let that hold you down.I think you should just move with your grandmother until you can get your own place. I don't think you should stop talking to your boyfriend. Just move out and give him time and in about 2 years your relationship with him will be fine.
2007-03-07 12:47:02 · answer #2 · answered by Kayko~kelon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you move out your boyfriend will probably take it the wrong way... I would talk to him and ask how he feels about it. But honestly no matter who you are going to upset you need to do whats best for you. You need to worry about your happiness. Good luck hun.. and don't cry it will all work out
2007-03-07 12:43:58 · answer #3 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move out. if you are having problems moving out will help decide if it was really meant to be. If he really loves you and wants you he will want to be with you more after you move out. it will be like dating all over again.
as for your dad, if he gets mad at you for moving in with your grandma than he needs to grow up. Life is to short to be mad and hate. If you love your grandma then that is what counts, maybe you can even help save there relationship.
2007-03-07 12:46:17 · answer #4 · answered by everythingszenidontthinkso 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are currenlty living with your BF then you move out, he might take it that you are just not wanting to be with him anymore. if you do make that decision make sure you do let him know that its for finacial reasons. i dont understand why your father hates your G-mom but what other option do you have? unless your dad is going to allow you to move in with him but if you do that then he might not give you the freedom that you have now. what you can do is sit down with your dad and discuss your options and see what he thinks. Good luck
2007-03-07 12:58:05 · answer #5 · answered by Queen of the Nile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby you gotta do what your heart tell you to do. remember he is only a boyfriend that will probably leave after a while. while your grandma is there for you for you life, it really doesn't matter what your dad thinks. do what make you happy
good luck
2007-03-07 12:43:01 · answer #6 · answered by Michael F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your only 18, i dont think you need to worry about your bf. I would consider the feelings of your Dad and get advice from him.
2007-03-07 12:41:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 18. Do what you think is right for you.
2007-03-07 12:43:29 · answer #8 · answered by bigfree_2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your bf, and tell him the situation, he will understand, if he loves u, or talk to ur father, both of them have to understand
2007-03-07 12:42:37 · answer #9 · answered by Wendicita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yOU SHOULD CHOSE WHATEVER'S IN YOUR HEART...NOT WHAT YOU THINK IS CONVIENENT OR GOOD FOR EVERYONE ELSE. iF YOUR BOYFRIEND BREAKS UP WITH YOU CAUSE YOU GUYS DON'T LIVE TOGETHER, THEN HE ISN'T WOTHY OF YOU. GOOD lUCK...HOPE EVERYTHING WORKS OUT FOR YOU.
2007-03-07 12:43:51 · answer #10 · answered by He's my world 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋