We've been married 15 years, two kids etc. We have always been honest, loving and supportive of eachother etc. Before we got married my wife was exciting, energetic, fun and sex was wonderful. For the last 12 years or so things have steadily declined. I do all kinds of things to keep it interesting but she has never done anyting to make it exciting. I spend a fortune on weekends, clothes, lingere for her, vacations and the sex is so ordinary. She never initiates sex. Never. I have to ask, beg, or spend a fortune and even then I feel terrible for "asking" and this may sound strange but I acutally feel very uncomfortable after sex now because I feel like like she is simply "servicing" me. I know this sounds ridiculous but I really want her to want me and she says she does but I just don't feel it at all. Basically she just lays there or I position her. She is never agressive, passionate, creative etc. So by accident I met another womam, nothing has happened but I am thinking.
2007-03-07
05:13:33
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Stone One
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Marriage & Divorce