Because i hear so many women saying that they still have an ex boyfriend that they are still in love with, even if they have a new boyfriend and im a guy i just want to know this from a women view.
2007-03-07 05:07:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is just a defense mechanism. Most women just pretend to still be in love with the exes they dumped just to make you jealous in their pitiful attempts to brainwash/emmasculate you into their ideal image of the perfect lapdog. Anybody with common sense (men) won't talk about their ex-girlfriend in front of a girl because we understand and have empathy for that being demeaning and cruel. Women on the other hand are vile spawns of satan who try to spread their inner turmoils to others in waves of misguided suffering.
In short, if she talks about her ex, just respond "you're right, you should go back to him" and just dump her right there. She'll be all flabbergasted because it never happened before and have a nervous breakdown... not quite unlike what would happen if YOU were the one talking about how much you still love YOUR exes.
2007-03-07 05:13:26 · answer #1 · answered by DarkLord_Bob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 07:43:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that I, myself, am still in love with the guy my ex boyfriend used to be. We had so much fun together, and went through so much sh** its rediculous. Well he made some big mistakes, and now hes not the person he was wen we met and dated.
Most girls are with a guy because they love them and have fun with them and get along with them. When they break up, they still miss that because if they werent having a great time, they wouldnt be together.
They are in love with the good times and conversations and pictures, and experiences, etc. Not the actual man i think.
2007-03-07 05:12:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally have only had that problem once. I didn't want the relationship to end, I hoped that things would work out and we would get back together. Things were left open, kind of. There wasn't definite closure. It didn't take me too long to realize that things were not going to work out.
We gals become more attached than most guys, so it can be hard to let go.
2007-03-07 05:12:54 · answer #4 · answered by agentm006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the break up. If the guy was a real jerk forget him. If for some reason you broke up on mutual terms well then it may be a bit hard to get over. Eventually one will get over the ex. Especially if someone better comes along.
He will be history.
2007-03-07 06:04:33 · answer #5 · answered by sunnysidegirl51 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think we're programmed to become attached to men for long periods of time. it's that whole bilogical impulse to mate and create a healthy family unit thing. whereas men are designed more to make as many babies as possible, so they often are less attached, or at least attached in a different way. new boyfriends are cool and all, but they aren't always more appealing than the old one. we also have a tendancy to get wrapped up in our failures and hold on to past relationships because we're afraid of failing again. men and women both do that in my experience.
2007-03-07 05:14:55 · answer #6 · answered by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard for some ladies to get over an ex boyfriend that they were probabley in love with and some ladies im not saying all just geT with somebody to get over an ex know what im sayin so if ur havin probs with ur girl right now make sure thats not what she tryin to do kay GOOD LUCK!!!!!=)
2007-03-07 05:13:05 · answer #7 · answered by devon a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's true, it is hard because ,there is only one love of a life time and if it is the one and you break-up it may take forever,but it takes work to keep the one you truly love,if we just move on our hearts always with the one who captured it,and it is truly difficult to truly get that one true feeling back ,even it we try with the new one ,it can also happen to men.I'm woman who knows I lost my true love going on four years know matter how much I have tried to move on I just can't bring myself around to giving myself to another person right now he was my everything and I miss him,but life goes on even if he is a hoe,i 'm just taking time out for me,and hope that i can fine someone similar to his qualities.it truly isn't easy for all genders.
2007-03-07 05:22:33 · answer #8 · answered by char 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a guilt thing.....They broke up because she was cheating but when it comes down to it, she knew he was better for her, but she was an attention **ore, so she went elsewhere. That would make the most sense. I have nothing but anger towards my ex so maybe I'm not the right one to ask. *LoL* Sorry hope something helps.
2007-03-07 05:13:03 · answer #9 · answered by the_wicked_itch_of_the_west 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its depends on how long women are with their ex's before they eventually break up, i was with mine since 9 months and broke up with him, i dont havefeelings for him anymore but i am still friends with him, but like i said, it depends on how long that woman was with her ex that makes her feel the way she does.
2007-03-07 05:11:46 · answer #10 · answered by tommi_ghurl_2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋