Family & Relationships - 7 March 2007

I've recently started dating a girl that I've been friends with for atleast 15 years, everything is great since we already know each other so well, and have never had any reason to keep secrets from each other. However, after I had back surgery 7 years ago it left me with a bed wetting problem. I never told her about this because it's a personal problem and she probably wouldn't want to know about it anyways. The problem is, as we become more intimate how do I tell her that I need to wear protection at night (yes diapers)? I know she will still love me, but it could make things rather akward.

Don't say go to the doctor, I've been there.

2007-03-07 05:24:21 · 5 answers · asked by b T 4 in Singles & Dating

my bf went away 2 weekends ago to go see his friends that he usually doesnt get a chance to see. he told me that there werent any girls there besides a few friends that all the guys have.anyway, i found pictures online (like webshots) of the party and there were tons of grls there even pics of him hugging some. Secondly, he said he hung out with guys the whole time and just played a drinking game then went to bed (party was hours away). Well, i read his email today ( i know i should have but i just felt like something was up, so i dont care if anyone thinks that is right or wrong) and i saw an email he sent to one of the girls. This is girl is supposedly engaged to one of his friends but it said "hey just wanted to let you know i had a great time this weekend. thanks for being my dancing partner. keep in touch" along with some other stuff...so then i asked him if he danced w/anyone, he said No over and over, basically he didnt even tell me he was dancing (which he never does)

2007-03-07 05:24:04 · 14 answers · asked by HlpMePlz 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 05:23:53 · 10 answers · asked by lets talk 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my bf and I just broke up and I want to a fresh start

2007-03-07 05:23:52 · 1 answers · asked by name 1 in Singles & Dating

I've liked this popular guy for 5 months, and my mate told me he really fancied me sorta! My other mate liked him too, so when she found out, she got jelous and told him i fancied him when i told her not too! He recently started avoiding me because i'm no longer a challenge, and out subtle flirting is no longer fun because now its ACTUALLY been admitted that i like him!
Everytime i see him i still have the urge to check out his backside lol, and rip his clothes off, but im trying hard to not look at him as i am embarrassed and trying to make it seem like i dont like him (playing hard to get) But yet he still avoids me, i would ask him out, but since he's VERY popular, i'd be torn if he said no! (hopefully some know how hard it is to ask someone popular out?) What do i do to make him like me like he did at the start?

2007-03-07 05:23:51 · 11 answers · asked by CompleteCreation90 1 in Singles & Dating

My brother in law gave my husband & I temp. guardianship of his kids. He stopped in this weekend and said he was taking the kids back to TN w/him. My niece 13 refused to go & nephew 9 was already packing. I told my niece that she had to go and should start packing. She told her father that she wanted my husband & I to be her guardians & that she didn't want to leave her school/friends and move out of state. He said he disowned her. I found out today that the grandmother is attempting to get a lawyer to bring her to TN where she would financially support all 3 of them. I have Temp Guardianship papers that were filed on 2/27. I need to pay for them to set a date. should I proceed with this and allow my niece to appoint my husband & I and not get financial support which grandma is saying I wont get and if I do she'll attack her lawyers on me. Im confused and just want to do the right thing. It isn't my obligation to raise her but she asked if she could remain with us. HELP!

2007-03-07 05:23:51 · 9 answers · asked by anabanana 2 in Marriage & Divorce

so i want to have sex with my boyfriend and i know he wants to also. we've talked about it before. but im scared cuz he has quite a few partners in the past. yeah ive had sex before but i want him to be pleased. should i continue with wanting to and how should i go into it. it hurt really bad the first time that i did..what should i do during "foreplay" and sex?? please help me here..


guys-what do you like girls to do during sex? noises? etc..i know every guy is different and my ex didnt really say. what can i do to help my boyfriend be happy and satisified?

2007-03-07 05:23:36 · 1 answers · asked by margrl1 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 05:23:02 · 48 answers · asked by sunshine 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know what the meaning is if u answer correct i will give 10 free points

2007-03-07 05:22:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

are there any ways I can open up ? im open with my friends but quiet around those I dont know...sometimes i get intimidated and cant open up to a complete stranger...is this bad? my shyness is not that extreme though...will it grow out s0me day ??

2007-03-07 05:22:33 · 7 answers · asked by Dia 3 in Singles & Dating

I posted this question but I feel I need to add details and ask again. Here is the situation, I'm getting married in August. My maid of honor keeps asking me for a list of guests for my bridal shower. This is kinda tricky for me. I'm having a small immediate family (and grandparents) only wedding and then the big huge reception following. When I asked my mom whom I should invite, she told me all of my aunts and cousins. Wow, thats a huge amount and I feel bad asking people to attend a shower that are only pretty much invited to my reception. First of all I'm not big into the whole shower thing anyway but my maid of honor is soooo excited for it, and I honestly don't know who to invite. Any words of wisdom?

2007-03-07 05:21:58 · 16 answers · asked by Krissy 4 in Weddings

This calls for a Drink...39 years old and its all payed for...YEAAHH HOOO....Anybody else Know how i feel?

YEAAAH HOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!EEEEEE HAAAHHH.

2007-03-07 05:21:28 · 12 answers · asked by HENRY 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-07 05:21:25 · 13 answers · asked by tom f 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been seeing this guy for over 8 months and he will only tell me bits and pieces about his break up with his ex. they have a young child together as well. I think he still has feelings for her even though it's been a lil over a yr since the break up but he does see her b/c of the kid. Advice?

2007-03-07 05:21:22 · 5 answers · asked by pradagurl2k3 1 in Singles & Dating

With what?

2007-03-07 05:21:03 · 11 answers · asked by tyemetght814 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

she is one of my greatest friends but she likes this guy lets call him "Alex" and my friends name will be "Carly" . She is like in love with him, he knows and one time she asked him out and he said no i thought she would stop with the "i love alex" thing but no! she kept insisting that i ask him out again or forge a note making it look like she wrote it and giving it to him b/c she thinks he's shy and will only tell her if he likes her! idk what to do and idk how to tell her its never gonna happen w/out hurting her feelings HELP!

2007-03-07 05:20:21 · 11 answers · asked by Christa...is Awesome =]] lol 1 in Singles & Dating

Do guys like it when girls act stupid or ditzy on purpose?
Like when girls act dumb just to get attention and they're not really being themselves. I feel like I'm the only one who doesn't do that.

2007-03-07 05:20:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 05:19:44 · 7 answers · asked by Ashley/Angel 2 in Friends

it a easy ?

2007-03-07 05:19:42 · 2 answers · asked by Stephen H 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a person who has never really enjoyed 'relations' and it doesn't mean much to me if I go without. However, my husband does enjoy this activity.
What are some different ideas, techniques, medicines, etc. that I could try to boost my interest in this? I feel as if I am letting him down and would really like to be able to make this enjoyable for him and initiate the action more often (without it being a forced effort).

2007-03-07 05:19:09 · 12 answers · asked by Natalie W 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am trying to figure out songs for the ceremony and for the reception, the garter toss, first dance, bouquet toss, cake cutting, entrance song, last song, and all of the songs for the ceremony, the entrance song for bride, bridesmaids, mom and stuff like that. I am racking my brain and need some help, I have some ideas but I would love some fresh ones!!! Thanks to all!

2007-03-07 05:19:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

love you jen

2007-03-07 05:18:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I like 2 guys and they both like me. I am 20 year old girl. The one guy is 18 and we are both kinda weird so its always fun when I'm around him. I am just concerned about him being younger. The other guy is 20 and we have a lot in common. How do I choose and it sucks because someone is going to get hurt?

2007-03-07 05:18:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 05:18:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what they seemed? Maybe they had a child and didn't tell you or they kept another secret from you. Males and females can reply. Thank you.

2007-03-07 05:18:24 · 7 answers · asked by 14 4 in Singles & Dating

How can I forget a guy that became a very important part of me,he's my friend and we love each other before, but now he's inlove with our friend,,it hurts..i thought i already forget the feeling, but i forget my heart in him,..

2007-03-07 05:17:51 · 7 answers · asked by eikee_lenne 1 in Singles & Dating

I wil be 25 in may and He will be 23 in sept. He graduated college in May. He said he's waiting for a feeling that he's ready to get married. We will be in a long distance relationship once he graduates. Im ready to be engaged. Do you think I should ask him to move in with me in the fall? I'm just looking for advice on the issue

2007-03-07 05:16:46 · 17 answers · asked by Angel222 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 05:16:19 · 10 answers · asked by City Dude 1 in Weddings

My friend has been married about a year and she always complains about them fighting as she cries on my shoulder. What should I do since she talks about divorce all the time?

2007-03-07 05:16:01 · 30 answers · asked by Crystal 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Please help me..........how can u tell that he is lie about what he says???? Like when he says i love you and i dont want to hurt you... how can u tell if he is tellin the truth.....please help and thank u

2007-03-07 05:15:13 · 12 answers · asked by Ashley/Angel 2 in Singles & Dating