2007-03-07 05:23:02 · 48 answers · asked by sunshine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you are bored with him leave.Evidentally you dont really love him..
2007-03-09 01:29:53 · answer #1 · answered by annie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you do something you regret, find out why you are feeling this way. Is it because there is no romance in the relationship? Has your fiancee changed after the engagement? Is there something that you are not sure of? Boredom could be indicative of something routine. In order to overcome this you can start the dating routine all over again. Just because you are engaged does not mean that you have to act married. Continue to surprise her with gifts and the occasional expensive dinner at a fancy restaurant. She will definitely reciprocate those actions. If all else fails, sit down with your fiancee and talk things out. Communication is a relationship miracle.
2007-03-07 05:31:32 · answer #2 · answered by MimiUdang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bored? thats not really a very nice thing to say but, if you are bored you could try to do different things that you normally do to make life interesting again. If you have lost feelings for them then its time to move on and tell them you dont want to be with them anymore. Just don't lead yourself or your fiancee on.
2007-03-07 06:26:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At first I was going to give the obvious answer - break it off. Perhaps that is the right thing to do. However, first ask yourself why you are bored, how you have changed, how she has changed? Then, the big question is why are you now bored if you loved her so much that you wanted to spend the rest of your life with her.
Give that some thorough thought. Maybe the relationship is not over. Good luck.
2007-03-07 05:28:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you bored with them or the idea of being in a relationship? If it's them tell them and move on, hey they may feel the same about you. But if it the relationship get help cause if not you are doomed to repeat again and again.
2007-03-07 05:30:21 · answer #5 · answered by wiggliy66 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A bored person is a boring person!! She may be bored stiff of you too, have you asked her? Sounds like she deserves better to me - the fact you are making a comment like that on here says a lot doesn't it??
2007-03-07 05:27:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two courses of action come to mind. !) Hang in there and discover why she was initially so fascinating. OR 2) Get really busy with overtime and keep putting off the marriage. Eventually you would have let her down gently allowing HER to break it off. And you will heve savings for the next plump little partridge...
2007-03-07 05:29:42 · answer #7 · answered by Bill C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you mean bored with him sexualy, you should talk to him about it. dont get marryed to him if you dont feel right. if he has a problem with having sex with you, you two should work it out. Dont end a soon to be marrage just because the sex is no good.
2007-03-07 05:27:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on why you're bored with him. How long have you been together? Do you spend all of your time together? Are you the wild and fun type and he the quiet and homebody type? It just depends on your situaton. Let me know!
2007-03-07 05:27:22 · answer #9 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now is the time to break it off, once you're married the real work begins....and you will find yourself even more bored.
2007-03-07 05:26:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋