I've liked this popular guy for 5 months, and my mate told me he really fancied me sorta! My other mate liked him too, so when she found out, she got jelous and told him i fancied him when i told her not too! He recently started avoiding me because i'm no longer a challenge, and out subtle flirting is no longer fun because now its ACTUALLY been admitted that i like him!
Everytime i see him i still have the urge to check out his backside lol, and rip his clothes off, but im trying hard to not look at him as i am embarrassed and trying to make it seem like i dont like him (playing hard to get) But yet he still avoids me, i would ask him out, but since he's VERY popular, i'd be torn if he said no! (hopefully some know how hard it is to ask someone popular out?) What do i do to make him like me like he did at the start?
2007-03-07 05:23:51 · 11 answers · asked by CompleteCreation90 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he's already over you and you haven't even "dated" him yet, then why do you still want him? I'm just assuming, but there's probably not much you can do to make him like you like he did...
2007-03-07 05:28:01 · answer #1 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure if he really liked you as more than a friend he would have acted on it when your jealous friend told him you fancied him. If he won't go out with you because you're no longer 'a challenge' is that the sort of guy you want?
Unfortunately, he sounds like a player who likes to string women along then when any of them show more than a casual interest you won't see him for dust.
As for getting it back how it was, I don't think that's going to be possible now. You could try talking to him and telling him your friend was making it up. But by the sound of it I don't think you're going to get the kind of flirty thing back.
2007-03-07 13:34:59 · answer #2 · answered by lady_vetinari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him - you can't make someone like you. If his feelings were reciprocated he would let you know and it was probably just a bit of fun at the beginning so it's time to move on. Don't worry, there are plenty of other guys who will make you want to rip their clothes off too in time, even if you can't imagine it now ;)
2007-03-07 13:31:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol Look if he really fancied you he would be pleased as punch...
Hug poor girl I dont think he fancies you and you scared him.
It would be great if he felt the same.
Maybe you mate said something else.
Hard to get games are a bad idea. People prefer not to play games
I would love somone like you who felt like that as both could go for it...(if not too old for you)
2007-03-07 13:33:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
TOUGH 1!!!
You need to control yourself, if you really, really like him just step back, pretend he isn't there, in fact why not just concentrate on one of his mates see if the green monster comes out and if necessary, go out with someone else and then see how he reacts. or play hard to get and try to convince everyone your soooooo over him!
2007-03-07 13:34:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think about it too much and just do it is my motto. Life is too short have fun. Start talking to his best freind and see whats up.
2007-03-07 13:29:49 · answer #6 · answered by DVD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think you've blown it now,you are no longer a challenge.
If thats how he operates,your better off without him.
2007-03-07 13:31:28 · answer #7 · answered by Pat R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a coincidence..... I want to do exactly the same thing!!!! (but don't worry, I'm not talking about the same guy)
2007-03-07 13:30:29 · answer #8 · answered by butterflies_are_free_03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends an asshole and if he's listened to her he isnt worth the hassle.
2007-03-07 13:42:50 · answer #9 · answered by Michael Knight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol you n your funny stories ...you need to try better
2007-03-07 14:05:18 · answer #10 · answered by THUG LIFE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋