my bf went away 2 weekends ago to go see his friends that he usually doesnt get a chance to see. he told me that there werent any girls there besides a few friends that all the guys have.anyway, i found pictures online (like webshots) of the party and there were tons of grls there even pics of him hugging some. Secondly, he said he hung out with guys the whole time and just played a drinking game then went to bed (party was hours away). Well, i read his email today ( i know i should have but i just felt like something was up, so i dont care if anyone thinks that is right or wrong) and i saw an email he sent to one of the girls. This is girl is supposedly engaged to one of his friends but it said "hey just wanted to let you know i had a great time this weekend. thanks for being my dancing partner. keep in touch" along with some other stuff...so then i asked him if he danced w/anyone, he said No over and over, basically he didnt even tell me he was dancing (which he never does)
2007-03-07 05:24:04 · 14 answers · asked by HlpMePlz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so he lies about stupid stuff and also in his email was a mysapce comment from one of his exs, i think he just deleted without reading it, but he knows i like to know when she tries to contact him..and he kept denying she even messaged him until i hounded it out of him...what am i supposed to do with a liar? I could break up with him but that is a last resort since i dont ever think he would actually cheat cheat on me...thanks
2007-03-07 05:25:59 · update #1
He probably lied to you because he knew how you would react. I know it bothers you but if he told you, would you react differently. I'm a firm believer that people in committed relationships should not act in certain ways, i.e. dancing or getting too close to women on men, but some guys till have wild oats to sow. If it's totally harmless then he may not feel the need to tell you because he knows you'll be updet or hurt. I think the important thing is if he's committed to you and would never do anything to hurt you, and you trust him, then learn to accept that he needs to be a guy.
2007-03-07 05:32:32 · answer #1 · answered by lovin' life... 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2007-03-08 02:28:59 · answer #2 · answered by poijhutg p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhmmm sounds kinda shady of him not to tell you about it and to email his friends girl like that
i think he's an idiot for one he didn't Tell you that could be like a million reasons for that but for the whole thanking a girl thing for being your dance partner threes only one reason
He wants that guys are very competitive when it comes to females he probably thinks he can have some fun out of it
and if you are having trouble with him now common dump him
you don't need a reason your just giving him an excuse to lie to you again.....
my adivce get rid of him before he cheats cause trust me he will
how do i know i was that exact type of guy
takes one to know one...
you can email me if you want more advice but honestly i did the same crap to some of my ex's
and all i was doing is looking for a girl to sleep with ...
so you can go and be naeive
or face the truth he is not good for you
your call....
2007-03-07 13:35:20 · answer #3 · answered by rm4real 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all guys lie because they think it's easier than telling the truth and of course they don't want you to know and sometimes they genuinely don't think some of the things they do are wrong, but if you are gonna resort to going through his personal stuff just to catch him in a lie about things you already have proof of,why waste your time thats is lack of trust right there. Are you sure you can handle the truth if he did tell you, Save yourself the aggrivation and find someone who is deserving of you.
2007-03-07 13:45:40 · answer #4 · answered by neat282004 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he has lied about little things, think about the things he has lied to you about that you don't even know. the real question is: do you realy want to spend your life with someone you can't trust?
you deserve better and there are alot of guys out there.
one final thought - if he doesn't want you to know anything about that party is most likely because he did something more than dancing. best wishes and good luck.
2007-03-07 13:36:22 · answer #5 · answered by Ed76 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some guys and girls just lie. They will not stop no matter how much you try to change them. Iny past relationship, all he did was lie. I would never have been truly happy because deep down I would always be wondering if he is telling the truth. Maybe it is time to move on unless you can just let things go and just not ask questions that he would possibly lie about.
2007-03-07 13:30:15 · answer #6 · answered by shelly63795 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dont put up with his lying cheating loser a**, kick his a** out the door, you were right of checking if he was cheating , find someone else, whoi will love you and wont cheat on you, you derve to be happy .
2007-03-07 14:11:36 · answer #7 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound somewhat obsessive so he probably lied to avoid conflict. You don't have to have sex to dance and being with a bunch of girls does not constitute cheating. There is no excuse for ling but maybe if you weren't so jealous and obsessive he would not have to!
2007-03-07 13:32:02 · answer #8 · answered by Brian 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
all i can advise you to do is keep a close eye on him. go dance with some guys, see how he likes it. also if he deletes messages from his ex without reading them, you have nothing to worry about there. don't be too clingy just be on alert
2007-03-07 13:28:40 · answer #9 · answered by Interested 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
look the guy was having fun it's wat they do and he made a mistake! honestly it sounds harmless to me SHE IS ENGAGED! their is nothing to worry about DO NOT BRAKE UP WITH HIM! i mean come on u can't tell me their isn't something that u have done that u don't want him to know about people make mistakes it's wat we do! and the girl just wants to keep in touch no harm in it! just leave it alone and it will go away
2007-03-07 13:30:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋