She is still obsessed with him and says all the time that their baby will bring him back to her. She tells me and him both that she loves him more than anything and she thinks that when he goes to see his baby that he is over there to see her and he has told her in front of me that he is there to strictly see that baby because she can't let the baby go anywhere because it is a new born and the doctor said not to.
2007-03-07 05:11:01 · 18 answers · asked by ~*Brandi Riggs*~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Just know that if you invite the baby mama, you're inviting potential baby mama drama that could ruin YOUR special day.
2007-03-07 05:17:06 · answer #1 · answered by royalserendipity 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Umm...the baby is a newborn? Did he cheat on you with her and got her pregnant or did you guys just start dating within the last 9 months or so and now you're already getting married? That, in and of itself, spells trouble to me.
I wouldn't invite her. She still loves him and doesn't understand that he has moved on. She will either show up and be miserable or she will show up and try to ruin your wedding by objecting or telling people that he really loves her or doing what she can to steal the spotlight.
It's nothing but a headache to have her there. Maybe if you don't invite her, she'll get it in her head that he's moved on.
2007-03-07 09:57:06 · answer #2 · answered by ms. teacher ft 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you should not invite her. It would be nice if everyone could get along for the baby's sake but that doesn't look likely. And what is wrong with the baby. I took my newborns everywhere and they're both healthy children now. I agree that it's too soon for overnight visits with daddy but there is no reason he couldn't take the baby for a couple of hours on his own. I don't buy that argument.
2007-03-07 05:15:40 · answer #3 · answered by Sharon M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd love to invite one of my fiance's ex just to rub it in her face. I know though that doing so would cause too much drama. You don't want her standing up when the preist says "is there anyone who thinks these two shouldn't be joined in marriage?". Save the drama from happening on your wedding day and DONT invite her.
2007-03-07 05:16:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, don't invite her.
She will cause drama and all that other stuff that goes along with baby mamas. Don't invite her to the wedding, and don't rub the fact your marrying her baby daddy in her face.
Just leave her alone. As much as you can..
2007-03-07 06:30:12 · answer #5 · answered by BARCELONA LOVER 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Been there-done that. YOUR day is for you and your husband to enjoy and celebrate with well-wishers. The only wishing she is doing is for you to disappear. The uncertainty of her behaviour would be added stress. If she shows up for the reception and behaves as a reasonable & responsible person - great. If she shows up and creates stress for your husband - have her escorted (nicely) out.
On a side note - you need to think of the child. If it is that young, it won't remember anything anyway. You will both have years ahead to make wonderful memories with it. And make sure your husband has a good lawyer.
2007-03-07 05:23:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds psycho! Don't let her ruin your day. Sounds like she'll try to if you let her come to your wedding. I wouldn't even tell her when it is or where its going to be held. Your fiance needs to get some court ordered child visitation rights! She shouldn't be able to tell y'all when and where you can see the child. He shouldn't have to go to her house to see the baby. He should be able to go pick the baby up and bring the baby home with him & stuff.
2007-03-07 05:17:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that inviting her to your wedding with the way she still feels would be very cruel thing to do.
Knowing he is getting married should be enough, but if not, when the ring is on the finger she should give up hope.
you don't have to cause her more pain...would you like that to be done to you?
be cool...
2007-03-07 05:16:23 · answer #8 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ha, I would say NO! ...think about it, would you really enjoy her being there especially if it could cause weird tension. You don't have any obligation to her so if you don't want her there and wouldn't feel comfortable about her being there you really shouldn't feel the need to invite her. It should be a day all about you and your new husband, aim to have fun = don't invite a crazy...
2007-03-07 05:38:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are the bride and this is your day. Babies are MAGNETS for attention. You do not invite her to the wedding. she will bring the baby and everyone will be ignoring you and ooh-ing and aah-ing over the baby and congratulating him and her. NUTTY situation. why would you eve remotely consider doing that?@?!?!?!
2007-03-07 05:21:44 · answer #10 · answered by Wifeforlife 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋