with the girl i went on my first date, i told her it was my first date (I'm 20) and well... there was no second date and she got pregnant by another guy.
2007-03-07 05:08:51 · 6 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, whatever else you do, don't tell her that story.
Don't lie about the second date thing, but don't volunteer the information. If she asks, be honest. If she doesn't, then don't say anything.
Everyone wants to believe they are getting a great deal. If you haven't dated much, she may believe it's because other women just aren't that interested. That's probably not the real reason, but it will indicate to her that her friends aren't going to wish they'd met you first when she introduces you to them.
If you hit it off and start seeing each other regularly, then telling her that she was your second date is not such a big deal. But at first, you want her to entertain the possiblity that there are other women who would like to be with you.
2007-03-07 05:19:23 · answer #1 · answered by Greg H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can't conceive a scenario where your number of past dates becomes something she wants to talk about. Relax, have fun and don't worry about any other dates besides the one you are on.
2007-03-07 13:18:54 · answer #2 · answered by Scott S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont say shes ur second date bc that will make u look stupid just say (if i comes up) that u had a past gf and things didnt work out...and u can maybe tell her the situation
2007-03-07 13:12:13 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nah, its generally a bad idea to talk about past relationships on a first date anyways. maybe wait till she gets to know you first, then tell her.
2007-03-07 13:15:32 · answer #4 · answered by LawDude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely don't tell her that. She may think you have issues.
2007-03-07 13:12:14 · answer #5 · answered by gerber baby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good! You don't want her anyway.
2007-03-07 13:12:13 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋